Any girls who are MAP?

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Rakuraku
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Re: Any girls who are MAP?

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MAPGL917 wrote: Sat Apr 11, 2026 6:55 pm
Rakuraku wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 3:05 am
MAPGL917 wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 2:22 am

Hopefully I'm not breaking any rules asking this, how does that even come about? I'm not super versed in discord, I use it lightly for some people that have asked. Are their groups/communities? How does that discussion even come about?
So there's not any map communities that I'm aware of. The way I met them was from anime and kink servers. The first I met because I read her kink story on ao3 and I dmed her to bring her over to a kink server I like. I don't remember how she came to tell me but I didn't judge her for it. There's a lot of age players who are non-exclusive pedophiles or the like.

The other was an anime server. I made the point when a discussion on loli came up that banning it always results in dumb stuff like counting characters head height and banning art by victims of abuse. Someone dmed me after and we came to talk and she told me she was a map. She's become quite a close friend.

I really must emphasize that I've only found these people through dming them and being friendly. The conversations started because of shared hobbies. None of advertised our attractions
So rereading this while trying to track down another post, how do you typically find the anime and kink servers? Also, link stories. I'll have to look up ao3, never heard of it.

I have been thinking a lot though. I've never really been aware of age play. Like, I kinda knew it was a thing, barely. I recently joined FetLife, as I figured the kinks I like are too hard to find a partner for the regular way. I assumed it wasn't that common... And oh boy, did I realize I'm practically vanilla. The stuff I liked, pretty much everyone did, and I learned about so much more. But the one that really caught my eye is age play. I was surprised not only by how many men were willing to openly say they desired "little, as I learned they were called, but I was more taken back by the sheer number of women who were into it too.

It makes me wonder if that minor attraction is significantly more common than most people think, but due to cultural reactions and stigmas to it, nobody is willing to admit it to each other, and we all feel like we should be ashamed of ourselves secretly and ready to join the mob anytime someone is outed as a MAP.

Anywho, that's my rant for the day. Hopefully I can get some good recommendations for new places and things to try, and thanks in advance.
It's definitely more common than people think. With servers you kind of just have to find them. Sometimes an author you like will have a discord you'll get invited to one. It sucks starting out trying to find places you fit in

In terms of stories, do you want like novels or ao3 ones haha. There's always Nabakovs classic
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Re: Any girls who are MAP?

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Yes, you are not alone.
31f, divorced single mom of 4
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