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by hugs
Sun Mar 30, 2025 6:14 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Everyone’s Invited- testimonies from survivors/victims.
Replies: 16
Views: 4883

Re: Everyone’s Invited- testimonies from survivors/victims.

Although I get that the need to find the "right place" to share stories of positive amsc is part of the problem, I do still think we ought to be strategic about this sort of thing. Sharing these sorts of stories in a forum for victims of genuine abuse seems a bit mean-spirited. However, absolutely ...
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Sun Mar 30, 2025 5:58 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Should people meet in person more?
Replies: 43
Views: 21349

Re: Should people meet in person more?

There appears to be a number of distinct, actionable ideas floating around in this thread:

- A "MAP Clubhouse:" Similar to the gay bars of the pre-stonewall era. A private club that serves local maps and aams by providing a safe-space where they can talk, play, and organize. Although nothing at the ...
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Sun Mar 30, 2025 3:42 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Boobs or flat chest?
Replies: 4
Views: 1375

Re: Boobs or flat chest?

Ah, yes. The age old question! How could I not join in on the fun!

Small, budding little beauties are eternally enticing, but I will always be a sucker for flat chests. Flat is justice, indeed.

As for the perfect age, well that's a tough one. That fleeting moment just before the dawn of puberty ...
by hugs
Fri Mar 28, 2025 7:03 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Should people meet in person more?
Replies: 43
Views: 21349

Re: Should people meet in person more?


I only met another MAP in person twice. It was the same guy and we met through a social media site called Experience Project. This gives me a bit if an idea but I do not know that it would work. I suppose a we could all set up a website for MAPS in our immediate area but it is pretty much hit or ...
by hugs
Fri Mar 28, 2025 6:27 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Should people meet in person more?
Replies: 43
Views: 21349

Re: Should people meet in person more?


I see. So more similar to the illegal headshops that pop up repeatedly in e.g. North America and the Netherlands selling magic mushrooms, get shut down by the authorities only to reopen under a different guise, get shut down again with harsher penalties, are recreated again in an even more brazen ...
by hugs
Tue Mar 25, 2025 4:11 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Should people meet in person more?
Replies: 43
Views: 21349

Re: Should people meet in person more?


Your rose-tinted vision sadly does not correspond to reality. The "grooming" hysteria means that the authorities would consider any overt interactions between MAPs and minors to be potentially illicit. I don't think they'd even accept having a MAP meeting space in the same city as children. :| Few ...
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Tue Mar 25, 2025 12:34 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Chubby kids...hot or not.?
Replies: 19
Views: 7592

Re: Chubby kids...hot or not.?

BLueRibbon wrote: Sun Mar 02, 2025 11:16 am I'm not especially into chubby boys, but big butts are attractive!
Well said! :D

I love a plump figure on adults, especially older women, but I feel like extra weight takes away from a child's unique charm. It ages them, to put it simply.
by hugs
Tue Mar 25, 2025 12:28 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Girls or boys?
Replies: 21
Views: 9119

Re: Girls or boys?

I love both, but I had to vote boys. Accepting that I'm a bottom has led me to see boys in an entirely new and exciting way.
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Tue Mar 25, 2025 12:16 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Maps with autism
Replies: 9
Views: 2510

Re: Maps with autism

I've never sought a diagnosis, but I highly suspect that I'm high-functioning autistic. Apparently, autistic people are more likely to be queer, and queer people are more likely to be on the spectrum. I consider maps to be essentially queer from both a historical and psychological perspective, so it ...
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Tue Mar 25, 2025 12:09 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: The Best Age
Replies: 21
Views: 6040

Re: The Best Age

I guess I'll hop in and join the fun :)

My aoa is pretty broad for both boys/men and girls/women, but pubescent boys aged 10 to 14 make my brain melt. :oops: