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by Lightie Twinkle
Wed Mar 05, 2025 1:34 am
Forum: Theorycrafting
Topic: The notion of MAPs as sadists
Replies: 24
Views: 20170

Re: The notion of MAPs as sadists




I meant regardless of whether they (the sadist) acts or just has the impulse or fantasy based on hurting someone. There is no behavioural test for being a sadist, outside of criminological categories, e.g. the idea that zoosadistic behaviour is a precursor to sadistic offending.


I can tell ...
by Lightie Twinkle
Wed Mar 05, 2025 12:38 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Pedophilia treatment for MAPs
Replies: 11
Views: 5806

Re: Pedophilia treatment for MAPs


I don't believe anyone is born with an AoA above 18, or a tiny minority of people are.

If numbers didn't exist, people would be attracted to people they just find attractive, often this would change over time for individuals. A 20 year old guy might be attracted to that 13 year old girl or that ...
by Lightie Twinkle
Wed Mar 05, 2025 12:35 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 3
Views: 2867

Re: Hello!

Welcome here.
by Lightie Twinkle
Mon Mar 03, 2025 12:29 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: CL Here looking for a safe space
Replies: 5
Views: 5114

Re: CL Here looking for a safe space

Welcome to the forum!
by Lightie Twinkle
Sun Mar 02, 2025 4:08 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hello there
Replies: 3
Views: 1450

Re: Hello there

Welcome to the Forum.
by Lightie Twinkle
Sat Mar 01, 2025 4:08 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hiii :3
Replies: 3
Views: 3112

Re: Hiii :3

Welcome.
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 9:56 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: MAP and LGBT
Replies: 7
Views: 4026

Re: MAP and LGBT

Konatachan99 wrote: Fri Feb 28, 2025 1:43 am do you maybe think minor attraction should be classed as part of neurodivergency.
I do because age attractions are just differences.
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 8:30 pm
Forum: Member Support
Topic: I'm nervous
Replies: 12
Views: 16389

Re: I'm nervous


This is a true and simple fact that, for some reason, antis don't get.

Well a difference exists, but this is artificially created by the law: We are not allowed any outlet, and this is creating an asymmetry and all the related issues. Imagine what would happen if teleiophiles were not allowed any ...
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 8:27 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?
Replies: 25
Views: 17467

Re: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?

Fragment wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 9:26 am “NOMAP” is still a fundamentally “defensive” position because you’re saying what you AREN’T, not what you ARE.
I call them Teleiophiles. Though it excludes Gerontophiles. Maybe AAP (Adult Attracted Person) would do?
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 1:53 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?
Replies: 25
Views: 17467

Re: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?


I think what may need to be emphasised is “being attracted to someone is not the same as abusing them.”

I thought Non-offending MAP’s is meant to make it clear that MAP’s are good people with no harmful intentions and respects laws (even if they don’t agree or find them unreasonable)


Right. I ...