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by Lightie Twinkle
Wed Mar 05, 2025 1:34 am
Forum: Theorycrafting
Topic: The notion of MAPs as sadists
Replies: 28
Views: 49550

Re: The notion of MAPs as sadists




I meant regardless of whether they (the sadist) acts or just has the impulse or fantasy based on hurting someone. There is no behavioural test for being a sadist, outside of criminological categories, e.g. the idea that zoosadistic behaviour is a precursor to sadistic offending.


I can tell ...
by Lightie Twinkle
Wed Mar 05, 2025 12:38 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Pedophilia treatment for MAPs
Replies: 12
Views: 7396

Re: Pedophilia treatment for MAPs


I don't believe anyone is born with an AoA above 18, or a tiny minority of people are.

If numbers didn't exist, people would be attracted to people they just find attractive, often this would change over time for individuals. A 20 year old guy might be attracted to that 13 year old girl or that ...
by Lightie Twinkle
Wed Mar 05, 2025 12:35 am
Forum: Introductions (Public)
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 3
Views: 5741

Re: Hello!

Welcome here.
by Lightie Twinkle
Mon Mar 03, 2025 12:29 pm
Forum: Introductions (Public)
Topic: CL Here looking for a safe space
Replies: 4
Views: 8251

Re: CL Here looking for a safe space

Welcome to the forum!
by Lightie Twinkle
Sun Mar 02, 2025 4:08 pm
Forum: Introductions (Public)
Topic: Hello there
Replies: 2
Views: 2849

Re: Hello there

Welcome to the Forum.
by Lightie Twinkle
Sat Mar 01, 2025 4:08 pm
Forum: Introductions (Public)
Topic: Hiii :3
Replies: 3
Views: 6115

Re: Hiii :3

Welcome.
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 9:56 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: MAP and LGBT
Replies: 7
Views: 5092

Re: MAP and LGBT

Konatachan99 wrote: Fri Feb 28, 2025 1:43 am do you maybe think minor attraction should be classed as part of neurodivergency.
I do because age attractions are just differences.
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 8:27 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?
Replies: 28
Views: 21085

Re: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?

Fragment wrote: Thu Feb 27, 2025 9:26 am “NOMAP” is still a fundamentally “defensive” position because you’re saying what you AREN’T, not what you ARE.
I call them Teleiophiles. Though it excludes Gerontophiles. Maybe AAP (Adult Attracted Person) would do?
by Lightie Twinkle
Fri Feb 28, 2025 1:53 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?
Replies: 28
Views: 21085

Re: Is it possible to be a Pro-Contact MAP and still be a non-offending MAP?


I think what may need to be emphasised is “being attracted to someone is not the same as abusing them.”

I thought Non-offending MAP’s is meant to make it clear that MAP’s are good people with no harmful intentions and respects laws (even if they don’t agree or find them unreasonable)


Right. I ...