Please tell me about your platonic friendships!

A place to talk about Minor-Attracted People and MAP/AAM-related issues.
User avatar
Judgey
Posts: 33
Joined: Wed Jun 25, 2025 7:10 am

Re: Please tell me about your platonic friendships!

Post by Judgey »

Platonic and romantic have always been the same thing for me.
I'm romantic, they're platonic.
Unless they decide to be romantic too, then our friendship is more magical and meaningful.
There is nothing illegal or wrong about romance. Romance doesn't necessarily explicitly imply sexual intimacy.
I want to love everybody, and kiss everyone, nothing wrong with that is there?
I like Grunko story. It's typical, awkwardness around young girl because of deep feelings of fondness. It's not "sexual attraction" it's just fondness, wanting to be nearer, wanting private 1 on 1 time. I call it girlphobia, a reaction to the social stigma that adults shouldn't be enamored by children, when they most certainly should be.
It takes practice, and understanding, learning how to be platonic/romantic about kids. Rules are different.
Lead Adm of Grr Stuff
ASpiritualMAP
Posts: 7
Joined: Sat Jul 05, 2025 4:27 pm

Re: Please tell me about your platonic friendships!

Post by ASpiritualMAP »

I have a wonderful friendship with a young neighbor. He's just starting kindergarten. We enjoy gardening together, he's learning this from his Dad. We also enjoy listening to music together, I have a Bluetooth speaker I bring out to our apartment complex's backyard. I've also started playing my guitar again, and I'm hoping one of these days, he'll be out with his Dad or Mom, when I bring it out with me.
RangoAtRandom
Posts: 4
Joined: Tue Aug 26, 2025 3:43 pm

Re: Please tell me about your platonic friendships!

Post by RangoAtRandom »

You can use my username.

I have been lucky enough to make friends with a some pre-teen/teen girls through social media. The ones that I am still friends with now are all girls that have proven 100% that they are who they say they are, which is very important to verify before getting too far into the friendship. One friend was 10 (now 12) when we met, another was 14 (now 16) when we met, and yet another was 14 (now 16) when we met. I approached all of them with politeness and honesty-all of them knew very early on that I was an older man, they all knew pretty quickly that I am attracted to younger girls, and all of them were good with it. With all of them, we have found common ground and common interests, and that really helped in forming relationships with them. One of the 16 year olds is a MAP herself, so we have a bit of a deeper connection, and she is the only one I talk to in detail about my desires and attractions. With all three of them, we have engaged in some level of flirting, and they all know that I find them attractive, and I make sure to tell them as often as I can. I have been able to dispense some advice to them on a regular basis, about love, life, sex and other things. I had, at some point, started to develop feelings for all three of them, and there were instances where the feeling was mutual, but I knew that nothing good could come out of a situation like that, so I do still love them, as very good and very close friends. Their friendship means so much to me, and my life would be very lonely without them.
Male, 50+, bi-curious
Age of attraction: Girls-3+, Boys-3 to 11
Pro-fully and clearly consented, child focused contact
Non-exclusive
"Thank heaven for little girls."
Post Reply