Does rape exist?

[Creature Bipedal]

There is a Russian lesbian Anne Levchenko who protects girls from heterosexualism. But since my childhood, I cannot understand what’s wrong in rape for a heterosexual woman. If a woman raped me, I would be grateful.

When a heterosexual man is raped in prison, it is another thing. But even here, when a man rests for years without a woman, he would be glad to be “raped.”

Is it possible to have erection if one does not believe that his “victim” is sexually aroused?

One who rapes during war is considered as a winner by women glad to be “raped” by such worthy man. And one who is allowed to rape outside war must be rich and high ranked—it means that any woman want to be “raped” by him.

[foxtrot321]

what are you talking about??? of course rape exists, and 90% find it to be a terrible experience, many are traumatised for life

[OnionPetal]

Wanting to do something is not the same thing as consenting to do something. For example, you might like to drink alcohol, but you choose not to because of the risks involved, like maybe you have to drive someplace, or be at work, or you have some health issues, so you choose not to. If someone then physically forces you to drink alcohol in that situation and says, 'I know you want it,' then that is a violation of your autonomy, because you did not choose to do it, even if a part of you liked it.

But even here, when a man rests for years without a woman, he would be glad to be “raped.”

Here? Where many MAPs are sexually disgusted by adult women? I think many here would not be glad!

One who rapes during war is considered as a winner by women glad to be “raped” by such worthy man.

I had to think of the wide reports of sexual violence perpetuated on the defeated German women and girls following World War II who threw themselves into rivers and drowned to escape the sexual violence of the conquering army. E.g., see the mass suicide in Demmin, which historians link directly to the mass rapes by Soviet troops. Obviously, if the women were killing themselves to escape rapists, then they were not 'glad' to be raped.

[Creature Bipedal]

I’ll go the way
Of Nazis and
Die to decay
In their land.

I’ll share their deeds,
By me they’re stood.
Germans will be
My people too.

Be cursed all those
Who won the war.
I will oppose
Pro-Jewish whores.

(c) Cyril Galaburda, April 4th, 2026

(I’ve just watched Cramer‘s film.)

[zarkle]

yes coercive, manipulative, deceptive sex acts exist. There are even cases where people can lie and play mind games to get sex which falls under the extended definition of rape. I don't see the point of a silly thread like this. I'm all about questioning norms yet you are questioning an obvious fact and doing this can make us even more unpopular then we already are.

[bnkywuv]

The title is a bit misleading.

Men can be raped and suffer from it, but it seems to be more of a cultural thing. Yes, there are ways for men to be forced into erection against their will, such as the use of medications for ED.

However, even under the context of culture alone, yes it can. In some indigenous cultures, even rape against women seems unheard of. If one knows the potential risks (family being torn apart, unwanted pregnancies etc) then it can become a real thing.

Trauma IS a real biological thing, but it can also be learned. Doesn't make it any less "fake" or "real" than the other.