Anyone been in a relationship in which you were both MAPs?

[MAPGL917]

I was thinking about this while commenting in another discussion. Has anyone been in a relationship and which you were both Maps and aware of it? If so, i am curious about a few aspects of it.

1. Was it a heterosexual partner, or was it a same sex partner that you had? ( if you don't mind, include your gender so that I can work out statistics involving later questions)

2. Did you and your partner share the same age of attraction? What about physical features? Meaning, were you attracted to the same ethnicities, features such as hair color etc

3. Did you and your partner role play, or do anything to help satisfy each other's urges?

4. How did you find out about each other being MAPs? What eventually brought it up?


A separate question, Were you ever in a relationship in which your partner knew of your attraction, even if they weren't a MAP themselves?

1. Did it ever make them feel selfconcious? Like you weren't as attracted to them?

2. Did they help satisfy your urges in any way, or at least look the other way when you did?

3. How did they find out? What was their initial reaction?



My theory is that it is more common under certain circumstances. I feel same sex couples are more likely to be aware that one or both of them are maps. Or, that couples who participate in age-play kinks are more likely to discuss it with each other. If you think of any more questions that should be added, or additional facts you wish to share, please add them!

My self, have never been in a "relationship" at the time we were both aware we were MAPs, but I have an ex-gf who has become aware for about a year now, and recently we discussed she may be a map as well. She once asked to see what I would use to satisfy those attractions and desires, and she was genuinely interested and fascinated by it, and I can tell it excited her as we shortly after ended up hooking up. Share any exciting stories you may have as well.

[MAPGL917]

Bump?

[CantChainTheSpirit]

Not exactly. I used to date a girl before I was married who was really into age play, she loved playing a little girl during sex.
I don't know if that makes her a map and I wasn't out to her as being a map, I just didn't complain that she loved to play that role. I never had to ask, it was just her thing.

[Rakuraku]

I was thinking about this while commenting in another discussion. Has anyone been in a relationship and which you were both Maps and aware of it? If so, i am curious about a few aspects of it.

1. Was it a heterosexual partner, or was it a same sex partner that you had? ( if you don't mind, include your gender so that I can work out statistics involving later questions)

2. Did you and your partner share the same age of attraction? What about physical features? Meaning, were you attracted to the same ethnicities, features such as hair color etc

3. Did you and your partner role play, or do anything to help satisfy each other's urges?

4. How did you find out about each other being MAPs? What eventually brought it up?


A separate question, Were you ever in a relationship in which your partner knew of your attraction, even if they weren't a MAP themselves?

1. Did it ever make them feel selfconcious? Like you weren't as attracted to them?

2. Did they help satisfy your urges in any way, or at least look the other way when you did?

3. How did they find out? What was their initial reaction?



My theory is that it is more common under certain circumstances. I feel same sex couples are more likely to be aware that one or both of them are maps. Or, that couples who participate in age-play kinks are more likely to discuss it with each other. If you think of any more questions that should be added, or additional facts you wish to share, please add them!

My self, have never been in a "relationship" at the time we were both aware we were MAPs, but I have an ex-gf who has become aware for about a year now, and recently we discussed she may be a map as well. She once asked to see what I would use to satisfy those attractions and desires, and she was genuinely interested and fascinated by it, and I can tell it excited her as we shortly after ended up hooking up. Share any exciting stories you may have as well.

I didn't realize at the time that I was one but she was. We never did any roleplay. We both liked little boys but we didn't talk about it much. I remember driving past a tennis court and ogling some teenage guy saying he should take his shirt off before she pointed out that he was next to a highschool and was in fact a highschooler. Not my proudest moment

[Rakuraku]

Not exactly. I used to date a girl before I was married who was really into age play, she loved playing a little girl during sex.
I don't know if that makes her a map and I wasn't out to her as being a map, I just didn't complain that she loved to play that role. I never had to ask, it was just her thing.

I've found people in ageplay community are generally more accepting. Though you do get the occasional person who violently hates maps. Certainly if I was in a relationship again I'd want it to be an ageplay based one. Easier for me that way

[MAPGL917]

Not exactly. I used to date a girl before I was married who was really into age play, she loved playing a little girl during sex.
I don't know if that makes her a map and I wasn't out to her as being a map, I just didn't complain that she loved to play that role. I never had to ask, it was just her thing.

I've found people in ageplay community are generally more accepting. Though you do get the occasional person who violently hates maps. Certainly if I was in a relationship again I'd want it to be an ageplay based one. Easier for me that way

I recently discovered age play as a kink through FetLife... And was shocked by the amount of people who participate. From the guy perspective, being into littles... I just feel like it's borderline socially acceptable pedophelia. Which is like totally fine, but I'm shocked that it's as common as it is. I wonder how many of the women littles are secretly MAPs, or just okay with the idea of MAPs?

[MAPGL917]

Not exactly. I used to date a girl before I was married who was really into age play, she loved playing a little girl during sex.
I don't know if that makes her a map and I wasn't out to her as being a map, I just didn't complain that she loved to play that role. I never had to ask, it was just her thing.

See, I recently discovered age play, and if a girl had done this for me.... Phew. I thought I had played out most of my degenerate with my last ex, but I'm sure she'd have been down for this. We did a lot of CnC so, not much crazier.

[CantChainTheSpirit]

It is strange really, a sort of cognitive dissonance.
My ex loved to play little girls, she'd be in bed talking about being a 6 year old as she climaxed and I've spoken to people into the age play scene and they've described how popular it is, but how one rule is you never mention being a pedophile because that'll get you kicked out. So people getting off fantasising about sex with or as a little kid, and that's acceptable, but mention the P word it's suddenly not?

One woman I spoke to who's into it said she thought it was down to so many girls having daddy issues. A girls first love is her daddy although it usually doesn't go beyond confused feelings and some level of jealousy of the mother, and then when older for some those daddy desires transform into age players. I don't know if that's true but it did sound plausible.