Does rape exist?

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Well you have to understand that all of what we are as humans are basically vehicles constructed by genes to improve the odds that we copy these genes. In our species the way we evolve to do this is sex. Every aspect of you has to evolve in the direction of making you *better* at having sex and making babies over the generations. That's why we have all of these both wonderful and not so wonderful features we have. So when asking about rape, we have to consider the separate gametic roles. Men are really more of a spray and prey strategy, inseminate as much as possible, less parental investment, ect.. females are more defensive and picky, more parental investment, choosey with mates. This is because females make larger gametes and have to care and grow the baby inside of them, there are higher energy and time costs for females. Essentially, they have to be more careful who they pick. So females evolve, like males, sexual preferences to help them do this. When you rape a woman, if you, your phenotypes, features, don't pass her threshold of 'Male I want to have babies with', they prefer no not have babies with you. While women do evolve to have sexual preferences for rape, because ultimately rape results in gene copies for women, and that's better than nothing as far as Evolution is concerned, it's not necessarily the preferred strategy. They generally prefer to select a mate, not to have one forced upon them.
When you ask does rape exist, 'rape' is referring to this causal structure and sets of game theoretic strategies. Evolved sexual strategies of DNA to aid it in copying itself.
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If you say to a boy that he was lucky to be sexually abused by a woman, you are not a man, you a are a misogynistic porn addict !
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Posts like these are what makes feel unwelcomed and uncomfortable on this forum which is supposedly a "safe welcoming space". I understand there's space for debates, and even some touchy topics we may disagree on, but this is just the type of stuff that drives me away from the only AAM space I have.
Of course rape exists, rape is serious, rape can cause PERMANENT physical injuries and disabilities which I hardly hear people talk about, as well as life-long psychological effects. Some people on here need to realize just because society treats sex as too taboo and "evil" of a topic, doesn't mean we fight it by treating it like breathing, walking, or hugging. Another thing, male rape is JUST as serious as female rape, maybe you would like it, but I've seen many men with trauma because of it, some people will argue rape is the worst thing something can do, and high on the list of the worst things to experience. This is why people have a hard time accepting us.


Something I've heard that really stuck to me, "People laugh when they're tickled, doesn't mean they enjoy it" You can see the person wriggle, laugh, be unable to say stop, doesn't mean they enjoy it.

Another thing some people here don't know, feminism is NOT babying woman, it believes men and women are EQUAL, men who are against feminism are against women, you can't say that you disagree with them having equal rights but still think you're not sexist. Feminism benefits MEN too, believing that they shouldn't be the only ones to work, they should be able to wear feminine clothes, being able to cry without feeling ashamed, ect. Being against feminism does nothing but bring everyone down. Misandry is being discriminatory towards men, NOT feminism
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GL_in_Lyrics wrote: Tue Apr 07, 2026 12:36 am What I do not agree with is that rape is a very big deal. It just isn't as big a deal as society and feminism make it out to be. Like, people need to get over it and stop believing that it's so harmful. THAT alone, will make it easier to recover from.
ANIMALS will avoid people who frequently force sex on them for their own pleasure, that's not "society telling them to"

Having bladder problems, being paralyzed legs down, PTSD, and broken/severely damaged organs from rape are not just "things society taught" you can not deny the fact that those happen with rape. Rape is SERIOUS. And the belief of women having equal rights makes it worse how...?
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Coyotehh wrote: Fri Jun 26, 2026 8:13 pm
GL_in_Lyrics wrote: Tue Apr 07, 2026 12:36 am What I do not agree with is that rape is a very big deal. It just isn't as big a deal as society and feminism make it out to be. Like, people need to get over it and stop believing that it's so harmful. THAT alone, will make it easier to recover from.
ANIMALS will avoid people who frequently force sex on them for their own pleasure, that's not "society telling them to"

Having bladder problems, being paralyzed legs down, PTSD, and broken/severely damaged organs from rape are not just "things society taught" you can not deny the fact that those happen with rape. Rape is SERIOUS. And the belief of women having equal rights makes it worse how...?

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This is why we’ll never be accepted into society
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Coyotehh wrote: Sat Jun 27, 2026 6:53 pm This is why we’ll never be accepted into society
Please don't take what they say about rape to heart or fall into respectability politics because of them, that'd be like pointing to some women who simped for Charles Manson as a reason for antifeminism being mainstream. Every group is gonna have jerks, no matter the identity, and the way in which they're seen by society as either representing their cause or being 'a few bad apples' always comes down to systemic power moreso than intracommunity policing of ideas.
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I meant to quote the person above me, must of forgot to do that.
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Coyotehh wrote: Sat Jun 27, 2026 8:51 pm I meant to quote the person above me, must of forgot to do that.


You've admitted in another post reply that you aren't for consensual sex with kids, and that, my friend, is misandry and feminism at their very core.
I don't trust you one bit. Don't expect very serious, well-thought out replies from me. You clearly don't belong on a forum such as this. I'm not going to waste my time with you.

Are you even capable of doing research into what some of the traditional feminists had to say about males? Because what they had to say is quite telling.

Nobody is saying that rape is a "good thing", so calm down. But circumcision is worse than rape, and much more damaging on average than rape is on average. And because of FEMINISM, circumcision continues....

The only thing feminism PROVES is that women do horrible things when they get "rights", such as murdering their own offspring. Abortion, is also, worse than rape. Feminism is the downfall of humanity, and is a dangerous psyop.

It's one thing to have views I happen to disagree with, but it's totally different when you have half a dozen views which all so brutally hinder and mock my rights. Your views seem to be so contradictory towards pedophilia, that it almost seems like you're just here to make people angry.
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Anti-pedophilia; a crime against humanity.
Circumcision; worse than rape. Proof that more males are sexually abused than females, and somewhat proof feminism is a lie. Also proof that pedophilia should be legal.
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GL_in_Lyrics wrote: Sat Jun 27, 2026 9:55 pm
You've admitted in another post reply that you aren't for consensual sex with kids, and that, my friend, is misandry and feminism at their very core.
I don't trust you one bit. Don't expect very serious, well-thought out replies from me. You clearly don't belong on a forum such as this. I'm not going to waste my time with you.
What does that have to do with misandry and "feminism"?? Only time I said is that I personally do not agree with having sex with infants, unless I must of forgotten something.
You can say that many women use feminism to put men down, but you honestly just seem to hate them.
And no, I joined this forum because I am a AAM myself, not because I want to piss people off. You just seem to be scared of losing power.
Feminism is NOT about putting down men, it's being able to bring everyone up despite their gender. It's called FEMinism because FEMALES historically have had less rights than males.

If you disagree with feminism, you're also disagreeing with:
It being okay for men to cry
Men being able to wear women's clothing
Men being able to care for their children in the same way women do
Women working just as hard as males in jobs.

They are all parts of feminism, you can not deny what is true.

I agree with your take on circumcision being bad, but it is no way near the same level of rape, and it does not make men more oppressed, just search up "female genital mutilation."

You seem to dislike women, and if you wanna change my mind, I'm willing to listen.
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