I'm 20 year old male and I often feel grateful that im straight and not gay. I honestly think if i was gay and attracted to men I would feel lonely and depressed. My father and the rest of my family are homophobic which would make it worse.
I'm a MAP and attracted to underage girls, society hates people like me more than gay people but I would rather be this way than be gay. I dont hate gay people or anything, but is it homophobic to think like this?
Am i homophobic?
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kiwi2843
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Re: Am i homophobic?
As long as you accept others can be gay and you don't obsess over others being gay/different then you're not a homophobe. Its perfectly fine to have preferences for your sexuality but just be cool about it!
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Condemned
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Re: Am i homophobic?
I wouldn't think just being glad you're straight makes you homophobic. Maybe this can help.
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn ... homophobia
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn ... homophobia
Homophobia can take many different forms, including negative attitudes and beliefs about, aversion to, or prejudice against bisexual, lesbian, and gay people. It’s often based in irrational fear and misunderstanding. Some people’s homophobia may be rooted in conservative religious beliefs. People may hold homophobic beliefs if they were taught them by parents and families.
