Confused

[Concreteconsumer]

Hi am a 14 year old aam and I was wondering is it really that wrong to be an aam or a map? Most people say all maps do is manipulate us into liking them but most of the maps I've talked to on online have been nothing but nice just curious other people's thoughts

[mrlolicon93]

Hi am a 14 year old aam and I was wondering is it really that wrong to be an aam or a map? Most people say all maps do is manipulate us into liking them but most of the maps I've talked to on online have been nothing but nice just curious other people's thoughts

No it isn't wrong it is very normal for kids your age to be attracted to older people.

Not to sound like an old boomer but when i was your age i had many crushes on adults i found attractive and i went through the exact same thing as you.

People used to tell me that adults are manipulative and that adult/minor relationships are wrong and that i should only fall in love with people my own age.

I got bullied a lot growing up because of this.

It sucks but people just aren't ready to accept the fact that kids are not as innocent as they think.

This has been a problem ever since the invention of the teenager after WW2 which extended childhood beyond pre-puberty and the pedo panic which has its roots in the anti-gay homosexual scare of the 50s and 60s but started to really take off in the mid 80s-Early 90s which stranger danger and still continues to this very day.

[bravolima]

dont worry, your just fine and curious, i was a AAM from the age of around 9, but that was back in the 70s. luckily i found a special guy who took good care of me.

[Concreteconsumer]

dont worry, your just fine and curious, i was a AAM from the age of around 9, but that was back in the 70s. luckily i found a special guy who took good care of me.

Oh well that's good to hear and I sure hope i find a guy for me one day

[bravolima]

dont worry, your just fine and curious, i was a AAM from the age of around 9, but that was back in the 70s. luckily i found a special guy who took good care of me.

Oh well that's good to hear and I sure hope i find a guy for me one day

just dont look to hard, a real boylover will find you who will respect you and not just use you for his own pleasure.

[Brain O'Conner]

You are fine where you are at. We are not the monsters that people make us out to be. In fact, the majority of the people who commit the heinous sex crimes against minors/children are actually not pedo/hebephiles. Most of those people who abuse younger people do it for the power and control, and has no kind of attraction towards them at all. And like what other people have said, it's actually very normal for you to have sexual, romantic, and/or emotional feelings for adults. A lot of kids, especially younger kids in the single digits, form all of those feelings for adults that they may admire. The majority of the people in this world does.