I'm having a difficult time.

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jeffychubchaser29
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I'm having a difficult time.

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In the romance department. I know this isn't a dating site, I'm just here to kinda vent. I'd love to find someone who shares my interests...but that is a bit difficult. When it comes to adults for me to be attracted to them they have to be overweight/fat men...but I'm fat myself. All the people I've talked to on other forums are either exclusive, into twinks only or have sworn off relationships. Does anyone have any advice? I'm pushing 30 and don't want to live in my parents basement forever...I should also mention that I am on the spectrum.
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liliets
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jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Sat Feb 15, 2025 9:17 pm that is a bit difficult. When it comes to adults for me to be attracted to them they have to be overweight/fat men...but I'm fat myself.
About that, that is nothing to worry about people always can find someone who is attracted to them regardless of how they are physically, about a MAP understanding person is can be a little hard since we are minority but don't lose hope, nothing is imposible when it comes to love.
Regardless of age or gender, People are free to love and be loved 💕
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liliets wrote: Sat Feb 15, 2025 10:35 pm
jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Sat Feb 15, 2025 9:17 pm that is a bit difficult. When it comes to adults for me to be attracted to them they have to be overweight/fat men...but I'm fat myself.
About that, that is nothing to worry about people always can find someone who is attracted to them regardless of how they are physically, about a MAP understanding person is can be a little hard since we are minority but don't lose hope, nothing is imposible when it comes to love.
Thanks. :)
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liliets
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jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Sun Feb 16, 2025 12:01 am Thanks. :)
You're welcome
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Xuxa Nuit
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I will love you like no other. Except maybe Jesus.
I'll go with anything that walks and speaks, I like people who have no friends who need a friend and appreciate attention and affection.

You will never talk to me though. I've been doing this all my life.
People don't really want help. When they do they just naturally find their way to me.
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I would say there are a lot of men and women out there in the same situation, asking the same questions, so you can definitely find love.

Could you use a dating site to meet people? What about fetlife which caters for people dating with unusual sexualities and situations? You're 30, that's still young, you can definitely find love and someone who will love you for who you are.
Keep every stone they throw at you. You've got castles to build.
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