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WavesInEternity wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 7:14 pm

Outis wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 8:33 am It's all part of a trend to instill fear and self-loathing into young people. Young people being forced to feel and bahave "as they should" and to fear anything or anyone that would compliment them or empower them. Compliments should be viewed with distrust and fear, any attempt to empower a young person or show respect by listening to them or engaging with them should be viewed as a prelude to an act of betrayal. It's just a society that wants to force young people and females to remain as a weaker disempowered group.

Somewhat related: Australia recently raised from 13 to 16 the legal age for youths to register for social media accounts. Hopefully that'll push teenagers toward cooler technologies like IRC.

Again, I commend you for the way you're raising your own kids. Empowering them, freeing them from the constraints of society's low expectations and absurd norms, is the way to go. You don't make outstanding adults out of children by ever treating them as "just kids"... although there's an opposite danger in the East Asian model of enforcing specific high expectations. It's a careful balancing act between necessary guidance and encouraging autonomy.

Thank you. They are well adjusted and do well academically and my eldest questions everything around her which I see as a good trait. But time will tell.

You know it’s funny u mention this because I myself have thought that a lot of men secretly have an attraction to minors but they just don’t like to admit it.
Your dead one when you say that some of the vigilantes have been caught red handed.
Also I like your picture of the little girl

PinkPawn wrote: Sun Mar 30, 2025 7:31 am Yes, I agree. If someone is attractive then their age doesn't really matter ... Their looks and/or personality are what matter

Exactly sometimes age is really just a number

Kylelomaz wrote: Wed Apr 02, 2025 3:02 am You know it’s funny u mention this because I myself have thought that a lot of men secretly have an attraction to minors but they just don’t like to admit it.
Your dead one when you say that some of the vigilantes have been caught red handed.
Also I like your picture of the little girl

it's pretty much just projection self hate and guilt but they will never admit that.

Also yes indeed antis and vigilante types have been caught with CP or even being sexual with or abusing their own children.

I believe Newgon has an entire section on their site called antis caught with their pants down with a bunch of screenshots of articles which are hilarious to read.

Check out this guy btw.

https://forum.map-union.org/viewtopic.php?t=1377

mrlolicon93 wrote: Wed Apr 02, 2025 3:20 am

Kylelomaz wrote: Wed Apr 02, 2025 3:02 am You know it’s funny u mention this because I myself have thought that a lot of men secretly have an attraction to minors but they just don’t like to admit it.
Your dead one when you say that some of the vigilantes have been caught red handed.
Also I like your picture of the little girl

it's pretty much just projection self hate and guilt but they will never admit that.

Also yes indeed antis and vigilante types have been caught with CP or even being sexual with or abusing their own children.

I believe Newgon has an entire section on their site called antis caught with their pants down with a bunch of screenshots of articles which are hilarious to read.

Check out this guy btw.

https://forum.map-union.org/viewtopic.php?t=1377

Watched the video it was pretty interesting funny you mentioned newgon as I was thinking about newgons little page about antis getting red handed well writing to you.
Now back to that elected councillor I thought for a public servant his house looked like shit and messy inside.
Could really see a lot of projection in his part.
Bet he’s going to hate having to register as a sex offender lol.
However I also noticed in the video he spoke alot about being stressed and all and I’ve read that some people that molest kids is because of stress so really wouldn’t surprise if that was part of the reason.
Thanks for sharing

EOF wrote: Mon Mar 31, 2025 12:45 am There is a trait commonly found in porn that appeals to pedophiles: women usually have their pubic hair shaved off completely. Is it because people like it this way? Or is it to get an unobstructed view on what the girls have down there? A girl who hebephiles would love and long for should already have at least a cute tiny bush.

Due to various quirks of natural selection (how different traits ended up associated with reproductive fitness and were passed on), the emergent physical "ideal" of a population never corresponds to any particular age in general, but instead to a composite of features associated to different ages. Studies show that, for the normal heterosexual male, the ideal female skin is that of a very young child or infant, the ideal face that of a young teenager, the ideal breasts and hips those of an older teenager, and so on.

This compound nature of sexual preferences is often reflected in individual tastes. My overall preference is hebephilic, but I have such a strong preference for characteristically prepubescent-looking female genitals that anything else will make me more or less nauseous—and all penises are just gross to me. (My long-time ex-girlfriend wasn't naturally too far off and she still had simple cosmetic surgery to make her vulva look just perfect. She also depilated instead of shaving. Her autopedophilia meant that her own preferences closely matched mine.)

I don't agree with the idea that being fanatically anti-pedophilia necessarily implies some repressed pedophilic attraction that one is hiding from the world but I do think that 'pedophilia' is more common than people might assume.

I can remember a study suggesting that average men were somewhat attracted to girls as young as nine and the age of peak attractiveness, for human females, is 14 (I also vaguely remember something like one quarter of men preferring prepubescent girls, that seems unreasonably high to me, I'm not sure if it was from the same study).

If you read the original Grimm's fairy tales, there are at least a few stories where a king falls in love with a little girl and this is treated as normal, presumably because of the time period. In the original tale of Snow White, for example, Snow is 7 years old and her prince is presumably an adult.

I can remember thinking about the girls in my age group when I was in the second grade and even though I definitely prefer adults it doesn't seem likely to me that most people outgrow the capacity to be attracted to the kind of people they were attracted to when they were younger (as a child/teen I never preferred the people in my age group, though).

I don't think 'MAP' is even a coherent category if one's attraction is toward visibly pubescent or post-pubescent minors. Average 13 year old girls share the same features that make women in their twenties and thirties attractive. The most meaningful understanding of 'pedophilia' might be a preference for prepubescent children, I think that is rare.

I suspect that the forbiddenness of child-adult sex also makes it appealing for some people who don't really prefer prepubescent children in terms of raw physical attraction and I would not at all be surprised if some of the most hateful anti-pedo people (especially men) have thought about being with a child, as an adult, at some point (if I had access to legal child porn that I'm not paying for or contributing to in any way where the child appeared to be happy and not upset or uncomfortable, I can't honestly say that I wouldn't be insanely curious about it).

There's this 12 year old actress/youtuber that I had a crush on not so long ago (not that my crushes last long but she's very attractive) and it's kind of made me appreciate that age group to the point where I was a little scared that I might develop a preference for them.

I don't agree with the idea that everyone is bi-sexual either. I actually liked the idea of being bi-sexual when I was younger but I could never get into it. I would fantasize about group sex scenarios that involved that but the man was always some faceless random porn star or some imagined non-specific man with no real personality or identity (I had never thought of a specific man I actually know or know of and I'm not capable of 'objectifying' men in that way; with women I'd want there to be an emotional connection/a 'romantic' aspect that lasted beyond orgasm. I'd start thinking about it and soon after I'd lose interest) and there were always women or a woman around and that's what made the prospect of it exciting (sharing her, the group aspect of it, seeing her take on two or more guys at once). I've never looked at a man's actual body and been attracted to him or his physical attributes (I actually hate the sight of men in skirts or short shorts and I guess even some of the camera shots in a typical porn video), it was the idea of being bi-sexual that turned me on largely because I've always been really into very promiscuous/highly sexual women so I though that it would make group sex more convenient in a way (to not be grossed out if our penises are touching and free to make out with a girl if she's finished performing oral sex on him or has his cum all over her face; because I've always been turned on by the idea of making out with a woman whose face is drenched in my cum; even though I prefer to orgasm through vaginal intercourse, etc.). Under normal circumstances I am a little 'disgusted' by the idea of being with a man. You could argue that men and women share some of the features that make them attractive, as much as I don't like the idea that not being disgusted by same-sex activity means that one is gay (i.e. people think that if a straight man can have sexual contact with other men he is necessarily gay or bi. He could just be neutral about male-male contact in the same way that he might be neutral about rubbing his penis against a pillow or he could be disgusted by male-male contact but high arousal can temporarily lower disgust. There was this scandal awhile ago about Malcolm X being bi or gay because he allegedly had sex with men for money) one counter could be that it doesn't negate being physically repelled by maleness.

I think everyone is a bit gay, a bit straight, a bit pedophile, a bit teleophile. Everyone is just a mix in different proportions.