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Its not allowing me to see itFragment wrote: Sun Apr 06, 2025 7:40 am https://fstube.net/w/xd1o7ctj2s51v97EVZhwHs
If you don't have a parent that knows you're a MAP and is supportive, you can borrow mine.
Ok how is being a sadist going to help our cause for eventual acceptance.WavesInEternity wrote: Sun Apr 06, 2025 9:07 am Great interview. Your mum sounds very supportive indeed. My own mum eventually accepted me, although it took nearly a decade (from age 13 to 21/22). Having an autopedophilic adult girlfriend was the key to changing her mind, as it gave her a female perspective that was completely opposite to her own
Well do you understand where mum felt about it all especially after what she experienced from her upbringing.
I’d say her qualms were valid
My only (very minor) criticism is that I'm tired of hearing some MAPs give the example of sadists and biastophiles as people for whom it's supposedly impossible to satisfy their desires ethically. I'm somewhat of a sadist and biastophile, I've met plenty of other biastophiles and sadists... I've yet to meet a single one who couldn't be fully satisfied with consensual "rape" role play (for biastophilia) and consensual sadomasochism with a willing masochistic partner (for sadism).
I fail to understand how any parent would be ok with you doing Bdsm,making it look exceptionally real,and on top of that with their child.WavesInEternity wrote: Sun Apr 06, 2025 10:02 amThat poor dude should try finding a compatible partner in the BDSM community. Some of my most hardcore sex sessions with one ex-girlfriend in particular were so convincing that an unknowing onlooker would doubtless have mistaken them for the real deal. We were so intent on making it as intense and realistic as possible that we decided to forego a safe word, an extraordinarily controversial decision even within the BDSM community which puts what we did firmly in the category of edgeplay. (That former partner of mine once told me "I think I was raped", and described what happened at a party months earlier. I could barely believe that she saw any ambiguity in it... except for the fact that she enjoyed it. But it was most definitely rape in the most traditional sense. So, yeah, her autobiastophilia was rather extreme.)Fragment wrote: Sun Apr 06, 2025 9:19 am I have a straight teleiophile friend that is still a virgin in his 40s because he is only turned on by rape. I very much had him in mind.
That's nice to hear.Fragment wrote: Sun Apr 06, 2025 9:19 am I talk about this in more detail in a (yet to be released) podcast. But yeah, a group of 6 boys had been begging me since last October to catch up. They aren't related to my case, but obviously meeting them is bad optics. But after my suicidal period in early February I just didn't care. I wanted to meet them before I die.
Funnily, meeting them made me feel myself again so strongly that it also eliminated most of my suicidality and made me feel that even if I go to prison, that somehow I'll manage it.
It was the best stupid decision that I've ever made.
I've got many questions, but I'll wait for that other podcast.
I'm a bit disappointed in you Kyle. You would say such things about another's sexuality while getting all indignant when people say the same thing about yours?Kylelomaz wrote: Mon Jun 23, 2025 9:45 am That girlfriend sounds she needs help,so do you if you get off on rape.