Re: Are you pro or anti cosang?
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 9:47 am
Inbreeding can cause birth defects. However, and as much as people like to use both words interchangeably, incest and inbreeding are not the same thing. The vast majority of people who engage in incest take measures to prevent pregnancy, thereby avoiding the risks and problems associated with inbreeding. Only a miniscule fraction of adult-minor incest cases actually involve inbreeding.
If the purpose of criminalizing incest were to prevent inbreeding and birth defects, it would make more sense to focus exclusively on cases of inbreeding and to only prosecute those who impregnate their close relatives.
Incest, particularly father-daughter incest, can be problematic for other reasons. In her book on father-daughter incest, Diana E. H. Russell notes that some girls were distraught and disgusted at the mere suggestion of sexual contact with a parent. While the stigma may explain some of this reaction, it is likely not the sole explanation. Many people simply find the idea of sexual contact with a parent repulsive and don't want anything to do with their parent's sexuality. Therefore, attributing all negative experiences to the stigma is misguided.
Nevertheless, I don't support the complete criminalization of incest. When it is illegal, children who have had neutral or positive incestuous experiences are also separated from their parents and gaslit into believing they were abused even if they did not originally feel that way. I only want to see cases involving clear abuse of parental power, where the child was coerced and experienced distress and trauma before societal intervention, to be prosecuted.
I remember that I actually wanted my mother to stroke my penis when I was a young child, after I had a positive experience with an older boy, but she didn't want to do it. I'm certain that I wouldn't have felt bad if she had done it.
If the purpose of criminalizing incest were to prevent inbreeding and birth defects, it would make more sense to focus exclusively on cases of inbreeding and to only prosecute those who impregnate their close relatives.
Incest, particularly father-daughter incest, can be problematic for other reasons. In her book on father-daughter incest, Diana E. H. Russell notes that some girls were distraught and disgusted at the mere suggestion of sexual contact with a parent. While the stigma may explain some of this reaction, it is likely not the sole explanation. Many people simply find the idea of sexual contact with a parent repulsive and don't want anything to do with their parent's sexuality. Therefore, attributing all negative experiences to the stigma is misguided.
Nevertheless, I don't support the complete criminalization of incest. When it is illegal, children who have had neutral or positive incestuous experiences are also separated from their parents and gaslit into believing they were abused even if they did not originally feel that way. I only want to see cases involving clear abuse of parental power, where the child was coerced and experienced distress and trauma before societal intervention, to be prosecuted.
I remember that I actually wanted my mother to stroke my penis when I was a young child, after I had a positive experience with an older boy, but she didn't want to do it. I'm certain that I wouldn't have felt bad if she had done it.