Re: Do you want to have kids?
Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2025 5:20 am
You may not know it, but you've hit the nail on the head. I'm currently reading through The Underground History of American Public Education by John Taylor Gatto, and it's an elucidating read. Among its many insights is the revelation that, as you've pointed out, the public education system was developed almost exclusively for the purpose of controlling working-class people. It's an ingenious and insidious way of indoctrinating young people into a lifetime of service to the owner-class. To briefly illustrate this, I offer a not-so-fun fact from the book: literacy rates, at least in America, have decreased since the implementation of the public education system. This is neither a mistake nor evidence of a broken system that needs fixing; this is by design. The point is to strip young people of their power and to extend childhood well into early adulthood. The "innocent child" narrative is just one piece of this puzzle, a mere facet of youthism, ageism directed at young people, an institutionalized form of prejudice that grants the government increasing control over our lives from birth. Although I'm only about halfway through the book at the moment, I've already come to view it as required reading for maps, youth-rights activists, and anyone else who genuinely cares about young people. I can't recommend it enough.RoosterDance wrote: Tue Jul 01, 2025 3:17 pm ... my biggest worry is how much authority the government would exert over their lives, much like what Justincredible brought up. This is especially true of how they handle schooling. I am personally have trepidation about putting my hypothetical kids though public school as it is now, (Dare I rather say public indoctrination) but if I refuse to cooperate with that system the government would just throw me in prison, steal away my kids, and force them to do it anyway. Private schools are not any better. I'd lean much more towards homeschooling, but I'm not sure how much control the government exerts over that.
Western governments have way too much power over people's personal lives, and especially the children. It's probably why they're so invested in maintaining the "innocent child" narrative.
I also recommend that maps research alternative methods for raising - and especially educating - their own children. Homeschooling is great, but I think you all should also look into unschooling, in particular. What I've learned is that the education system, better described by Gatto as a "forced schooling" system, is primarily designed to miseducate children, rather than to educate them. I think, for our community, unschooling could be a great way to circumvent that system and raise free-thinkers.
For my last point, I want to expand on "community" a bit. I've said this before, but it seems to me that many of the issues faced by maps and minors could be solved - or at least alleviated - by robust local communities. Homeschooling or unschooling your child on your own is a serious challenge, but imagine having a local community of other map parents who could support you. Your child also wouldn't be alone because they'd have a community of other kids just like them. And the benefits don't have to end there. Before compulsory education became commonplace, children would voluntarily enroll at small local schoolhouses, and many kids would get hands-on experience by starting apprenticeships at local businesses from an early age. Theoretically, a local community of maps could revive these practices. They could open their own small private school, owned and operated by the community, and maps who own local small businesses could offer apprenticeships to help the minors in the community learn valuable skills. By networking with the maps around us, we could build a community that respects and nurtures children, circumventing the status quo that instead indoctrinates and abuses them.
I had a perfectly average childhood, and I absolutely hated it. Until very recently, I loathed the idea of bringing new life into the world, just for them to experience the horrors of childhood that seemingly all of us must endure. But when I considered the possibility of a community, a real community where people meet face-to-face, where people get to know one another deeply and personally, where people support each other like family, I realized that I'd love to be a father. I would love to raise a child of my own in a community where they could be loved and respected as a human being equal to all others. So I'm gonna try my best to build a community just like that. I think we all should.