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Did they have servers or something?Rakuraku wrote: Mon Mar 02, 2026 1:53 am I'm one though not exclusive. I imagine women are more discreet and less likely to use forums. I've met a lot on discords
Hopefully I'm not breaking any rules asking this, how does that even come about? I'm not super versed in discord, I use it lightly for some people that have asked. Are their groups/communities? How does that discussion even come about?Rakuraku wrote: Mon Mar 02, 2026 1:53 am I'm one though not exclusive. I imagine women are more discreet and less likely to use forums. I've met a lot on discords
Absolutely not, I met them in anime/kink servers. I doubt you can operate a map server openly and safely and if you did you would only be likely to get guys. The female pedos I've met have always been silent about it except to friends and not using forums
So there's not any map communities that I'm aware of. The way I met them was from anime and kink servers. The first I met because I read her kink story on ao3 and I dmed her to bring her over to a kink server I like. I don't remember how she came to tell me but I didn't judge her for it. There's a lot of age players who are non-exclusive pedophiles or the like.MAPGL917 wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 2:22 amHopefully I'm not breaking any rules asking this, how does that even come about? I'm not super versed in discord, I use it lightly for some people that have asked. Are their groups/communities? How does that discussion even come about?Rakuraku wrote: Mon Mar 02, 2026 1:53 am I'm one though not exclusive. I imagine women are more discreet and less likely to use forums. I've met a lot on discords
I imagine it is significantly different for women to open up and talk about these things though. I only recently discussed this in depth with a female lately, an ex-gf of mine. Like literally 3 days ago. Due to... Circumstances, she is aware I am a MAP (without knowing about what a MAP is or anything) and aware of my attractions. We have had discussions about my preferences, and I've even showed her stuff Ive used to satisfy my urges in these regards. Which, obviously excited her as it directly lead us to fooling around after.Rakuraku wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 3:05 amSo there's not any map communities that I'm aware of. The way I met them was from anime and kink servers. The first I met because I read her kink story on ao3 and I dmed her to bring her over to a kink server I like. I don't remember how she came to tell me but I didn't judge her for it. There's a lot of age players who are non-exclusive pedophiles or the like.MAPGL917 wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 2:22 amHopefully I'm not breaking any rules asking this, how does that even come about? I'm not super versed in discord, I use it lightly for some people that have asked. Are their groups/communities? How does that discussion even come about?Rakuraku wrote: Mon Mar 02, 2026 1:53 am I'm one though not exclusive. I imagine women are more discreet and less likely to use forums. I've met a lot on discords
The other was an anime server. I made the point when a discussion on loli came up that banning it always results in dumb stuff like counting characters head height and banning art by victims of abuse. Someone dmed me after and we came to talk and she told me she was a map. She's become quite a close friend.
I really must emphasize that I've only found these people through dming them and being friendly. The conversations started because of shared hobbies. None of advertised our attractions
Yeah I imagine there's a bit of societal pressure to not have that interest so many women just, don't think about it as it were. Like compulsory heterosexuality but for minor attraction. To openly like younger boys or girls as a woman is not particularly safe I would imagine.MAPGL917 wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 3:54 amI imagine it is significantly different for women to open up and talk about these things though. I only recently discussed this in depth with a female lately, an ex-gf of mine. Like literally 3 days ago. Due to... Circumstances, she is aware I am a MAP (without knowing about what a MAP is or anything) and aware of my attractions. We have had discussions about my preferences, and I've even showed her stuff Ive used to satisfy my urges in these regards. Which, obviously excited her as it directly lead us to fooling around after.Rakuraku wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 3:05 amSo there's not any map communities that I'm aware of. The way I met them was from anime and kink servers. The first I met because I read her kink story on ao3 and I dmed her to bring her over to a kink server I like. I don't remember how she came to tell me but I didn't judge her for it. There's a lot of age players who are non-exclusive pedophiles or the like.MAPGL917 wrote: Thu Mar 26, 2026 2:22 am
Hopefully I'm not breaking any rules asking this, how does that even come about? I'm not super versed in discord, I use it lightly for some people that have asked. Are their groups/communities? How does that discussion even come about?
The other was an anime server. I made the point when a discussion on loli came up that banning it always results in dumb stuff like counting characters head height and banning art by victims of abuse. Someone dmed me after and we came to talk and she told me she was a map. She's become quite a close friend.
I really must emphasize that I've only found these people through dming them and being friendly. The conversations started because of shared hobbies. None of advertised our attractions
Well we were discussing it the other day as we were relaxing together at a lake. I forget how it came up. Later, I guess a family had a small tent set up, and she noticed them changing their young boy as she could see through the opening, and made a comment about not wanting to see his weiner. I said mhm, sure. And she basically said she wouldn't mind seeing it, but not as a sexual thing, and I saw my opening to broach her being a MAP.
Well, she is in her late 20's. Since we separated, a lot of her bfs have not only been younger than her, they were young looking for their age. Her bf she had most recently, was in his early 20's, but looked like he could have been in his mid teens. I pointed this out to her, and she agreed she definitely has an attraction to younger looking males, and I told her she might be a MAP. Unfortunately people came closer to us, so we couldn't continue the discussion, but it's a start.
Other than on here, she's the only female MAP I've been able to tell, and it's only because we're so close it came up. But alas, as I am not a BL, I don't see us discussing it much.
One of the things I did while I was questioning was a find and replace of the famous 'lesbian masterdoc' with MAP and chronophilia terms instead of gender related ones. I found it really helpful and if anyone's interested I'd be more than happy to find a place to upload my 'translation' to share it.Rakuraku wrote: Fri Mar 27, 2026 12:00 am Yeah I imagine there's a bit of societal pressure to not have that interest so many women just, don't think about it as it were. Like compulsory heterosexuality but for minor attraction. To openly like younger boys or girls as a woman is not particularly safe I would imagine.