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Has there been much evidence of success using this method? Specifically success at getting people to seek out MAP-made or other non-stigmatizing sources rather than just being outraged.

Fragment wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2024 10:23 am

WandersGlade wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2024 9:21 am I think trying to engage civilly and in good faith is the best choice in the long run.

And what gets people to the table to discuss issues in the first place? Awareness. Even if part of that awareness is misplaced.

The phrase "minor-attracted person" being tweet by someone like Jordan Peterson is a big deal. Even if it requires "ragebait" to get him do so. The screenshot linked above had 280k views. Because it was outrageous.

Having people saying "pedophilia is one step from being normalized" is great. Because people will then start to turn to organizations like Mu whose goal is respectful engagement. People will want to know WHAT is being normalized. And when they start to ask, we are there waiting to engage civilly and in good faith.

Ragebaiting and disruption isn't for its own sake. Getting people mad needs a clear goal at the end of it. Otherwise it IS meaningless and self-defeating. But just like protests in the street, it is one tool that we can employ. One tool that we have in the digital age that previous civil rights movements did not have.

I don't know. I feel like pedophilia has already been on everyone's minds for decades. The issue is people's horror and anger at it, which I think would get reinforced by ragebaiting. I think you shouldn't increase the opportunity for people to slip back into that horror and anger.

WandersGlade wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2024 12:56 pm I don't know. I feel like pedophilia has already been on everyone's minds for decades.

Child abuse has been on people's minds for decades. The normalization of a sexual orientation has not been.

Ragebaiting does not involve "we're coming to fuck your children" type messaging. Not even ironically.

Zeeb/Lilitha/Potluckpony had something like 20M impressions on the tweet Elon Musk amplified, but I don't see any general popularity of Youth Attracted Person flags. What we got was more awareness that freaky/politically militant pedos were stirring in some way, and perhaps a small boost for awareness of this community.

This will continue to happen over a slow course of smaller events, and eventually MAPs will start to force their way into pride parades and develop adjacency dynamics. This will in turn cause conflict and controversy.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/articl ... -flag.html

Here's the Elon Musk reply incident being referred to.

Fragment wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2024 1:21 pm

WandersGlade wrote: ↑Mon Jul 15, 2024 12:56 pm I don't know. I feel like pedophilia has already been on everyone's minds for decades.

Child abuse has been on people's minds for decades. The normalization of a sexual orientation has not been.

Ragebaiting does not involve "we're coming to fuck your children" type messaging. Not even ironically.

I'll say one last thing, and then leave it because I expect we'll have to agree to disagree on this. When I'm angry at someone, I don't really think specifically about what makes me angry about them. Anger clouds my perception of them almost completely. If the distinction between pedophiles and child abusers isn't already there, the message you give when you talk about the normalization of MAPs reads from an outsiders perspective as the normalization of child abusers.
I feel like provoking people has the opposite effect of the desired effect, and what's needed for acceptance is to calm people down rather than to agitate them. It's easier to hold people to account when they aren't being defensive in my experience.
I believe that in their heart of hearts, these people know that how they're treating MAPs is wrong. However, in my experience people are less likely to admit they're wrong if they are trying to save face.
In my view, if you want to have moral authority you have to hold yourself to higher standards than an average person. The day a person can say "MAPs need to be accepted" without coming across as self-serving or crazy, is the point at which a lot of things would change.

I feel the same as you, WandersGlade.

Still, it is known that even negative advertising can have positive effects.
Yet, every movement will give rise to an anti-movement.
We're currently seeing this in real time affecting the trans community.
And we've seen it before with PIE. Haven't things gotten so much worse mainly in response to their activism?

I'm a great admirer of Tom O'Carroll, for the record.
And I don't offer any answer to this issue .

Joel wrote: ↑Tue Jul 16, 2024 12:23 pm I feel the same as you, WandersGlade.

Still, it is known that even negative advertising can have positive effects.
Yet, every movement will give rise to an anti-movement.
We're currently seeing this in real time affecting the trans community.
And we've seen it before with PIE. Haven't things gotten so much worse mainly in response to their activism?

I'm a great admirer of Tom O'Carroll, for the record.
And I don't offer any answer to this issue .

I'd say the difference is that we are inundated with negative news stories today because the internet can provide a never ending feed of things which in the past would be considered "shocking". I think the culture of intense outrage we have today is politically unsustainable; having rule of law isn't exactly compatible with your whole society becoming an angry mob.
Certainly, it's not unexpected to find opposition to anything, but the point is to persuade the hypothetical person who would be willing to judge an issue from an impartial viewpoint.
I would see the opposition to trans people as a product of populism.
With PIE, I place the blame squarely on tabloids and sensationalism in the media. If society hadn't been dumbed down by blurring the line between politics and entertainment, we would be able to address these questions seriously and without cowardice. My hope is that if Trump loses this up coming election, enthusiasm for populism will wane, and we can start to move back towards a more responsible form of politics.

WandersGlade wrote: ↑Wed Jul 17, 2024 2:24 am Certainly, it's not unexpected to find opposition to anything, but the point is to persuade the hypothetical person who would be willing to judge an issue from an impartial viewpoint.
I would see the opposition to trans people as a product of populism.

Yes. But I think that when some movement push too far too quickly without very solid arguments, the counter movement will come with even stronger force. Regarding trans issues, I might be influenced a bit too much by Bailey and Cantor. The thing is, people are starting to realize the science WPATH used to push puberty blockers and transition for the youth was not very based, and more medical practitioners are less afraid to talk about it now.

The point being, whatever we do, the message in the media will be "the left is going for our kids". And I am afraid that the opposition against "trans-agenda" is growing stronger around the word, especially when it comes to youth issues. I think MAPs themselves actually are not much concern to most, but they'll use us happily to fight against "identity politics pushed by the left and LGBT+".

I don't know, it is difficult. For me personally, I'd love to make slow moderate progress using valid science and smart dialog, with the well-being of children being the priority. At the same time we can see on many examples, that it is not always the valid science and moderate positions what wins, at least temporarily, and trolling on Twitter and canceling people for different opinions can have some success. I don't like it, but have to accept it.

Joel wrote: ↑Wed Jul 17, 2024 7:24 am I don't know, it is difficult. For me personally, I'd love to make slow moderate progress using valid science and smart dialog, with the well-being of children being the priority. At the same time we can see on many examples, that it is not always the valid science and moderate positions what wins, at least temporarily, and trolling on Twitter and canceling people for different opinions can have some success. I don't like it, but have to accept it.

If that can't change, there's no future anyway. Misinformation and populism have to be checked. Crazy/misinformed people need to be reined in and excluded from serious political discussion. There's no point trying to change the opinion of the Twitter mobs that have continuously been dragging society further towards anarchy. The minds that we have to change are those in positions of responsibility which, by definition, wouldn't let their views or actions be influenced by Twitter.
I think you might be underestimating just how out of touch with reality and worthless the majority of the opinions of people on Twitter are. Both right wingers and left wingers constantly spread disinformation and shallow/ill-informed takes. It's time for hyper partisan midwit edgelords to stop driving society off of a cliff.