RoosterDance wrote: Thu Jul 31, 2025 10:11 pm
G@yWad69 wrote: Thu Jul 31, 2025 8:47 pm
They dont look the same,
How you look is determined by your biology (among other factors). "Identical" means that they are the same. If you say they don't look the same, you are therefore saying they are not completely biologically identical.
Debating semantics is always petty (to me). That includes your stated examples. What seems popular and common to you, may not be popular and common elsewhere. Or even popular and common a year from now. For example, the definition of adult as pulled from the cambridge dictionary:
a person or animal that has grown to full size and strength
What dictionary did you even use? Dictionaries typically don't define phrases such as "biological adult." They usually only define single words.
Yes, biologically, everyone looks unique and different. Thats why I want to know what your standard of “biological adult” is, because theres going to be someone who is well over the age of 18 who doesnt fit that standard
I didnt use a dictionary. I just searched up “when does an organism become a biological adult” and that was the most common definition.
I have a question. What do you think is soooo complex and sooo difficult to grasp about adulthood that the average teen cant handle it? Because I am a barely legal adult, recently crossing the magical special arbritary number of 18. And all I can say is, this shit is NOT difficult, I couldve easily done all this 5 years ago, if not more.
Is it paying bills? All that requires is basic accountabillity, its not diffcult to just set up autopay to make it even easier
Is it working full time? Teens already have to get up as early as 5 or 6 in the morning to get ready to work 8 hours straight, 5 days a week, doing miserable shit that they hate. The only difference is that with a full time job, you get paid.
Is it starting a family? I am not advocating for anyone to start a family if they believe they arent ready. But if they are able to finacially suppirt themselves and are emotionally capable, why shouldnt they be allowed to do things like get married and have kids? Its not like its impossible, there are plenty of teen parents who are wonderful, and plenty of legal adult parents who are ass, and for the teen parents that do fail, a lot of it lies in the way that they are socialized and their lack of legal rights. Teens have been capable of starting families succesfully for centuries until very recently. Which shows that their recent incapabillity is a social and legal issue, not anythibg innate to teenagehood.
Seriously, yall are so addament about blocking teens from being treated and respected as adults. “Oh they arent ready” “oh they arent mature” how the hell are they supposed to mature if you never let them? And if you go even deeper, what about adulthood is so “mature” in the first place that the average teen cant be taught how to handle it, google search it, or figure it out first hand. Name one thing. The majority of Americans have, really, really, low expectations of teens and really, really high expectations of legal adults when in reality, the only real differnece between them is socialization and the law. Yall act like turning 18 is some big biological change that transform you from a stupid immature kid to a big grown capable adult, when in reality, becoming mature comes from being allowed to grow and develop and being given basic responsibillity and accountabillity.