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Officerkrupke wrote: Tue Aug 19, 2025 6:03 pm I would adopt but it’s expensive. Probably when I have a good stable job.

G@yWad69 wrote: Tue Jul 01, 2025 12:50 am

Fragment wrote: Mon Jun 30, 2025 11:30 pm I have a daughter. I agree with most of your statements. A few things to consider, though.

You will likely be raising your kid with your wife who will probably have a more important role than you. Child raising philosophy is something you’ll need to talk about and negotiate.

As Justin said, there are some things on your list that are just illegal. Or at the very least will raise red flags.

You will be raising your kid as part of society. You have a responsibility to ensure they can integrate in that society. If they are too radically different then I think you might actually be causing problems which is irresponsible. Even if you promote nudism you can’t have your kid just randomly take off their clothes at kindergarten.

There are individual differences. Some foetuses might masturbate. My daughter didn’t show any interest in it as a toddler. Introducing her to masturbation would’ve been imposing my ideas onto her, not letting her explore freely.

I think the timeline may be a little different to what you’re imagining. At least for most kids. A 3 year old often is only just starting to ask about genitals. They might be interested in learning to read, but they might not. Especially if they’ve gotten into tech, which they likely will. Unless you’re willing to go without a phone yourself. That’s probably the only way you could raise a kid without screens.

I think you’re also missing one thing. All of this philosophy comes crashing against the reality of a kid that is hungry, tired or uncooperative. Recognizing the individuality of your kid also means accepting that they might reject all of your teachings- including sex positive ones. Rather than being happy you taught them about sex, your. 14-year-old might learn differently at school, believe that, and report you as a groomer. You need to be prepared for THAT possibility, too.

But overall, I do think the general direction of your parenting philosophy is sound. Just recognize the limits of philosophy in parenting.

(Also please don’t quote the entirety of such long posts! Clip part of it and just quote that.)

Im female. IM the one with the most important role lol. Thats one of the reasons I am excited to have kids, I fully control the narrative. But I agree with what you say, I will be subtle about it, but still sex positive, I am prepared for the posibillity that my kid will be another sex facist and hate me, but I need to at least try

SCM123ABC wrote: Wed Aug 20, 2025 3:44 am Yes but no little girl I planning on adopting a black prepubescent boy wilth mild disability (to be my heir) from foster care/domestic adoption and then adopting two teen girls with severe disabilities internationally however I do plan to genetically create the "perfect little girl" as granddaughter I already have name picked out she going to be little blonde green eyed girl with all the physical disabilities I can give her that won't affect her appearance or lifespan (just like Phoebe she's my new Phoebe)

Kylelomaz wrote: Mon Aug 25, 2025 7:41 am

SCM123ABC wrote: Wed Aug 20, 2025 3:44 am Yes but no little girl I planning on adopting a black prepubescent boy wilth mild disability (to be my heir) from foster care/domestic adoption and then adopting two teen girls with severe disabilities internationally however I do plan to genetically create the "perfect little girl" as granddaughter I already have name picked out she going to be little blonde green eyed girl with all the physical disabilities I can give her that won't affect her appearance or lifespan (just like Phoebe she's my new Phoebe)

Hi haven’t seen you around before I’m Kyle.
I understand you are American as who’s from another country I find your negro boys to be so cute
However why do you want them to have disabilities.
So who’s phoebe cause from the way i interpreted it sounds like you know a phoebe?
Ps granddaughter sounds gorgeous minus the disabilities, I find girl with blonde hair blue eyes to be so attractive.
That’s good that you are Christian what branch do you belong to,I’m Catholic but non practicing.

superboy1005 wrote: Tue Aug 26, 2025 5:04 pm

Kylelomaz wrote: Mon Aug 25, 2025 7:41 am

SCM123ABC wrote: Wed Aug 20, 2025 3:44 am Yes but no little girl I planning on adopting a black prepubescent boy wilth mild disability (to be my heir) from foster care/domestic adoption and then adopting two teen girls with severe disabilities internationally however I do plan to genetically create the "perfect little girl" as granddaughter I already have name picked out she going to be little blonde green eyed girl with all the physical disabilities I can give her that won't affect her appearance or lifespan (just like Phoebe she's my new Phoebe)

Hi haven’t seen you around before I’m Kyle.
I understand you are American as who’s from another country I find your negro boys to be so cute
However why do you want them to have disabilities.
So who’s phoebe cause from the way i interpreted it sounds like you know a phoebe?
Ps granddaughter sounds gorgeous minus the disabilities, I find girl with blonde hair blue eyes to be so attractive.
That’s good that you are Christian what branch do you belong to,I’m Catholic but non practicing.

I'm glad to have a female MAP who thinks the same way as me, I'm gay, but I want to have a child too, are you thinking of starting a family together? like Co-parenting