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Re: Masochism

Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2026 4:54 pm
by CantChainTheSpirit
DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 11:04 am
CantChainTheSpirit wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 10:41 am
DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 9:39 am
That's not what I meant. I am referring to the sick conversation on this thread by 2 other members.
I read it, it was just two people talking about sex. It isn't something I'm into but I respect that everyone is different. It isn't my place to tell others how to feel or what is right or wrong with sex, if I believe I have the right to dictate to others then I have to accept that to be fair, they have the right to dictate back to me.

The reason maps have a hard time is because others judge. The reason people of different faiths have hard times is because others judge. The reason different races and groups have a hard time is because others judge. I just try to avoid judging others so everyone can coexist peacefully and respectfully and hopefully brings some healing to the world.
I can judge them. They can judge me. That's life.
Fair enough.
I try to avoid judging personally, but that's a personal choice. I don't really expect others to do that, they just can't reasonably complain when others judge them back.

Re: Masochism

Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2026 5:08 pm
by JGHeaven
MAPGL917 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 7:16 am Oh yeah no, it's definitely not the kink I'm going worried about. I need to be blessed getting out of this dry spell. I'd say 85% of the girls I've dated or hooked up with, I met through work. Restaurant/fast food, so genders were pretty even, with there probably being a handful more girls, which helped. Well, I left that line of work 4 years ago. That's also when I broke up with my last gf/daughter's mom. Been single since -with a splattering of hookups since, but nowhere near enough. And I'm blessed and cursed together. I'm early 30's, but constantly getting mistaken for early 20s. Which is why my whole friend group is 19-21. And now, girls my age think I'm too young for them, and girls in my friends group think I'm too old, especially being the single dad of a 4 year old. And I work so much, I have like one day a eeek to meet someone... But chances are good they they'll like a little rough at least. Question is how far I can push it 😂
You will find someone, there are women around you looking for the same, you won't have problems finding someone. What about a dating site?