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DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 11:04 am

CantChainTheSpirit wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 10:41 am

DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 9:39 am
That's not what I meant. I am referring to the sick conversation on this thread by 2 other members.

I read it, it was just two people talking about sex. It isn't something I'm into but I respect that everyone is different. It isn't my place to tell others how to feel or what is right or wrong with sex, if I believe I have the right to dictate to others then I have to accept that to be fair, they have the right to dictate back to me.

The reason maps have a hard time is because others judge. The reason people of different faiths have hard times is because others judge. The reason different races and groups have a hard time is because others judge. I just try to avoid judging others so everyone can coexist peacefully and respectfully and hopefully brings some healing to the world.

I can judge them. They can judge me. That's life.

MAPGL917 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 7:16 am Oh yeah no, it's definitely not the kink I'm going worried about. I need to be blessed getting out of this dry spell. I'd say 85% of the girls I've dated or hooked up with, I met through work. Restaurant/fast food, so genders were pretty even, with there probably being a handful more girls, which helped. Well, I left that line of work 4 years ago. That's also when I broke up with my last gf/daughter's mom. Been single since -with a splattering of hookups since, but nowhere near enough. And I'm blessed and cursed together. I'm early 30's, but constantly getting mistaken for early 20s. Which is why my whole friend group is 19-21. And now, girls my age think I'm too young for them, and girls in my friends group think I'm too old, especially being the single dad of a 4 year old. And I work so much, I have like one day a eeek to meet someone... But chances are good they they'll like a little rough at least. Question is how far I can push it

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 5:08 pm

MAPGL917 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 7:16 am Oh yeah no, it's definitely not the kink I'm going worried about. I need to be blessed getting out of this dry spell. I'd say 85% of the girls I've dated or hooked up with, I met through work. Restaurant/fast food, so genders were pretty even, with there probably being a handful more girls, which helped. Well, I left that line of work 4 years ago. That's also when I broke up with my last gf/daughter's mom. Been single since -with a splattering of hookups since, but nowhere near enough. And I'm blessed and cursed together. I'm early 30's, but constantly getting mistaken for early 20s. Which is why my whole friend group is 19-21. And now, girls my age think I'm too young for them, and girls in my friends group think I'm too old, especially being the single dad of a 4 year old. And I work so much, I have like one day a eeek to meet someone... But chances are good they they'll like a little rough at least. Question is how far I can push it

You will find someone, there are women around you looking for the same, you won't have problems finding someone. What about a dating site?

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 5:08 pm

MAPGL917 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 7:16 am Oh yeah no, it's definitely not the kink I'm going worried about. I need to be blessed getting out of this dry spell. I'd say 85% of the girls I've dated or hooked up with, I met through work. Restaurant/fast food, so genders were pretty even, with there probably being a handful more girls, which helped. Well, I left that line of work 4 years ago. That's also when I broke up with my last gf/daughter's mom. Been single since -with a splattering of hookups since, but nowhere near enough. And I'm blessed and cursed together. I'm early 30's, but constantly getting mistaken for early 20s. Which is why my whole friend group is 19-21. And now, girls my age think I'm too young for them, and girls in my friends group think I'm too old, especially being the single dad of a 4 year old. And I work so much, I have like one day a eeek to meet someone... But chances are good they they'll like a little rough at least. Question is how far I can push it

You will find someone, there are women around you looking for the same, you won't have problems finding someone. What about a dating site?

DANAT4T wrote: Fri Jun 05, 2026 4:35 pm

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 5:08 pm

MAPGL917 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 7:16 am Oh yeah no, it's definitely not the kink I'm going worried about. I need to be blessed getting out of this dry spell. I'd say 85% of the girls I've dated or hooked up with, I met through work. Restaurant/fast food, so genders were pretty even, with there probably being a handful more girls, which helped. Well, I left that line of work 4 years ago. That's also when I broke up with my last gf/daughter's mom. Been single since -with a splattering of hookups since, but nowhere near enough. And I'm blessed and cursed together. I'm early 30's, but constantly getting mistaken for early 20s. Which is why my whole friend group is 19-21. And now, girls my age think I'm too young for them, and girls in my friends group think I'm too old, especially being the single dad of a 4 year old. And I work so much, I have like one day a eeek to meet someone... But chances are good they they'll like a little rough at least. Question is how far I can push it

You will find someone, there are women around you looking for the same, you won't have problems finding someone. What about a dating site?

You seemed to be encouraging the member. I'm not surprised the number of false allegations of child sexual abuse is rising.

MAPGL917 wrote: Sun Jun 07, 2026 2:20 am

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 5:08 pm

MAPGL917 wrote: Thu May 28, 2026 7:16 am Oh yeah no, it's definitely not the kink I'm going worried about. I need to be blessed getting out of this dry spell. I'd say 85% of the girls I've dated or hooked up with, I met through work. Restaurant/fast food, so genders were pretty even, with there probably being a handful more girls, which helped. Well, I left that line of work 4 years ago. That's also when I broke up with my last gf/daughter's mom. Been single since -with a splattering of hookups since, but nowhere near enough. And I'm blessed and cursed together. I'm early 30's, but constantly getting mistaken for early 20s. Which is why my whole friend group is 19-21. And now, girls my age think I'm too young for them, and girls in my friends group think I'm too old, especially being the single dad of a 4 year old. And I work so much, I have like one day a eeek to meet someone... But chances are good they they'll like a little rough at least. Question is how far I can push it

You will find someone, there are women around you looking for the same, you won't have problems finding someone. What about a dating site?

I hate them. They seem so fake and inauthentic. Plus, with the luck I have, I might as well be looking by sending out smoke signals. Im decently attractive, but I can't take a good photo to save my life. So idk. I've slowely been browsing through FetLife. I just need to get out of my comfort zone and go to an even or something. Meet people.

JGHeaven wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 5:02 pm

DANAT4T wrote: Fri Jun 05, 2026 4:35 pm

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 01, 2026 5:08 pm

You will find someone, there are women around you looking for the same, you won't have problems finding someone. What about a dating site?

You seemed to be encouraging the member. I'm not surprised the number of false allegations of child sexual abuse is rising.

I don't understand what you mean? How does encouraging someone to find a partner in tune with them lead to false allegations of child sexual abuse?

DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 11:21 am

JGHeaven wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 5:02 pm

DANAT4T wrote: Fri Jun 05, 2026 4:35 pm
You seemed to be encouraging the member. I'm not surprised the number of false allegations of child sexual abuse is rising.

I don't understand what you mean? How does encouraging someone to find a partner in tune with them lead to false allegations of child sexual abuse?

I mean your tactics only work on simps.

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 4:51 pm

DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 11:21 am

JGHeaven wrote: Thu Jun 11, 2026 5:02 pm

I don't understand what you mean? How does encouraging someone to find a partner in tune with them lead to false allegations of child sexual abuse?

I mean your tactics only work on simps.

I honestly don't know what you mean. My tactic of encouraging people to seek out good and happy lives only works on simps. Do you mean that encouraging people to be happy requires someone to be simple to find happiness? Well I suppose I'd have to agree that it doesn't need to be over analysed, a good heart is enough to find love and happiness.

DANAT4T wrote: Sun Jun 28, 2026 11:13 am

JGHeaven wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 4:51 pm

DANAT4T wrote: Mon Jun 22, 2026 11:21 am
I mean your tactics only work on simps.

I honestly don't know what you mean. My tactic of encouraging people to seek out good and happy lives only works on simps. Do you mean that encouraging people to be happy requires someone to be simple to find happiness? Well I suppose I'd have to agree that it doesn't need to be over analysed, a good heart is enough to find love and happiness.

You don't even know what simp means.