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As one, I sometimes don't feel like it and just lose hope that I will ever find someone. I still receive a lot of fatphobia too.
What do I do?

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Tue Feb 18, 2025 11:20 pm As one, I sometimes don't feel like it and just lose hope that I will ever find someone. I still receive a lot of fatphobia too.
What do I do?

Hey buddy.. Do you know why MAPs are here to make activism or to find a community that understand us? Is all because there are people who don't like us and what we like thus they treat us bad for that. And is the same with whatever thing is different, hair color, height, sexual orientation and infinity kind of things... there are even people who don't like males who like the pink color but anyway the are other people including me that though they don't like something because everyone has likes and dislike, but they still wouldn't treat someone bad because they don't like something of them. But there are people for every likes including you so soon or later you are to find someone so don't lose hope.

If you want to do something I'd say you should hang out with different people than the ones you always do so that increases that probability because maybe the one who would like you is not among them.. you get it?

Are plus sized people valid?
Are MA people valid?
Are people valid?

Yes. we are all valid

Lightie Twinkle wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 12:43 am

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Tue Feb 18, 2025 11:20 pm As one, I sometimes don't feel like it and just lose hope that I will ever find someone. I still receive a lot of fatphobia too.
What do I do?

Hey buddy.. Do you know why MAPs are here to make activism or to find a community that understand us? Is all because there are people who don't like us and what we like thus they treat us bad for that. And is the same with whatever thing is different, hair color, height, sexual orientation and infinity kind of things... there are even people who don't like males who like the pink color but anyway the are other people including me that though they don't like something because everyone has likes and dislike, but they still wouldn't treat someone bad because they don't like something of them. But there are people for every likes including you so soon or later you are to find someone so don't lose hope.

If you want to do something I'd say you should hang out with different people than the ones you always do so that increases that probability because maybe the one who would like you is not among them.. you get it?

Thanks, that makes me feel better.

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 12:52 am ]Thanks, that makes me feel better.

I am glad I can help

Lightie Twinkle wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:05 am

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 12:52 am ]Thanks, that makes me feel better.

I am glad I can help

Just so you know....I have a similar nickname on VoA.

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:09 am Just so you know....I have a similar nickname on VoA.

Oh.. okay I used the same

Lightie Twinkle wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:13 am

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:09 am Just so you know....I have a similar nickname on VoA.

Oh.. okay I used the same

It's similar enough that you can put two and two together.

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:16 am It's similar enough that you can put two and two together.

Okay, when I enter I will see

Lightie Twinkle wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:26 am

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:16 am It's similar enough that you can put two and two together.

Okay, when I enter I will see

It might actually be when an admin gets to it. There has been an influx of people joining recently.

jeffychubchaser29 wrote: Wed Feb 19, 2025 1:32 am It might actually be when an admin gets to it. There has been an influx of people joining recently.

Are they active at this hours?