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So my sister is pregnant and having a baby girl and while i am excited and happy for her i am also, very nervous and scared tbh.

I'm scared of what might happen when she gets to be a little older like what if i end up becoming attracted to her daughter and try to do something?

It is not gonna happen for a few more months but i am worried.

What should i do?

In my case, I can be around boys without another adult present, even while drunk, and control myself just fine.

What makes you think this will be an issue?

What you should do is relax.
If you have even a modicum of self-control, there's no reason to believe you're going to suddenly lose it.

Worrying and obsessing about it seems a bigger worry to me than anything.

Enjoy being around your niece. Get to know her as a person. Don't do anything that could damage the precious, unique relationship you'll be able to build with her, and the one you already have with your sister.

"OMG, my sister is going to turn 18 next week, how am I going to stop myself from boning her?!" isn't a comment you hear from many teleiophiles. You'll be fine.

BLueRibbon wrote: Mon Feb 24, 2025 4:23 am In my case, I can be around boys without another adult present, even while drunk, and control myself just fine.

Why would you even be alone with children while drunk?

TayFerret wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 2:10 am

BLueRibbon wrote: Mon Feb 24, 2025 4:23 am In my case, I can be around boys without another adult present, even while drunk, and control myself just fine.

Why would you even be alone with children while drunk?

I enjoy alcoholic drinks, and teen YFs have sometimes stayed late or slept at my place. To be clear, I don't share alcohol with boys, but I will drink as usual if they're present at my 'drinking time'.

It's never been a problem.

We MAPs aren't so different from Teleiophiles we just differ in Age of attraction so as they can be around with people they could be attracted we can too.

BLueRibbon wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 2:45 am

TayFerret wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 2:10 am

BLueRibbon wrote: Mon Feb 24, 2025 4:23 am In my case, I can be around boys without another adult present, even while drunk, and control myself just fine.

Why would you even be alone with children while drunk?

I enjoy alcoholic drinks, and teen YFs have sometimes stayed late or slept at my place. To be clear, I don't share alcohol with boys, but I will drink as usual if they're present at my 'drinking time'.

It's never been a problem.

Blue ribbon I’m quite curious to know which country do you live in and what is the age of consent in your country or state you reside in.
How old and how many young friends do you have.
Do you ever do anything sexual with them when they reach the age of consent ?

Lightie Twinkle wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 2:58 am We MAPs aren't so different from Teleiophiles we just differ in Age of attraction so as they can be around with people they could be attracted we can too.

What’s your age of attraction

Kylelomaz wrote: Fri Feb 28, 2025 5:37 am

BLueRibbon wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 2:45 am

TayFerret wrote: Tue Feb 25, 2025 2:10 am

Why would you even be alone with children while drunk?

I enjoy alcoholic drinks, and teen YFs have sometimes stayed late or slept at my place. To be clear, I don't share alcohol with boys, but I will drink as usual if they're present at my 'drinking time'.

It's never been a problem.

Blue ribbon I’m quite curious to know which country do you live in and what is the age of consent in your country or state you reside in.
How old and how many young friends do you have.
Do you ever do anything sexual with them when they reach the age of consent ?

I live in an Asian country. My AoA doesn't extend beyond the AoC, so sadly I have to keep my friendships platonic. However, there is very little paranoia about man-boy friendships here; locals don't even seem to realize that boylove exists. Affection is celebrated.

I don't actually have any YFs at the moment due to a change in circumstances, but hopefully I will make some new friends soon. In the recent past, I was able to have a lot of YFs without too many problems.