Does anyone else hate “totally real AAM”?

[G@yWad69]

The very annoying and cringe minors who hate maps and try to purposefully bait them into commiting crimes with their stupid “uwu im just a wittle baby 17 year old I want to get gwoomed”

1.Your not 3, you are a borderline adult, act like it and stop texting with that bs “uwu” speak. Its not cute. Its not sexy. Its cringe as hell. Stop infantilizing yourself you are just embarrassing yourself.

2.I think teenagers are as attractive and endearing as rocks, and even if I found the remotely attractive, not wanting to go to jail keeps me from falling for their obvious pedo hunting shit, but some maps think theyre the bees knees and are dumb enough to fall for this cringe “UwU looking for gwoomer, totally real minor btw!” Act. A real AAM actually cares about us and would never put is in danger

[Aspire6]

I think it's important to give them the benefit of the doubt and talk with them as normally as possible, but still keeping things safe and secure.

Allies are hard to come by and shrugging them off can likely lead them into places with people who may not be so kind. It is safe to assume some "AAMs" might be wanna-be "pedo hunters" trying to score some easy pickings, but they fail to realize they're doing more harm than good. To assume all of them have some ulterior motive is misguided, even if they may come across wrong.

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A lot of real AAM actually pretend they are older at first.

The are sick of the "minors, do not interact" culture so they'll talk to you pretending to be 25 before they tell you they're really 15.

[Bookshelf]

I try to not judge (at least not in text). Like Fragment said, a lot of young people instinctively act older online due to the way young people are treated. Even when I was a kid on the internet I'd pretend I was 16+ for a while, because admitting you're younger always drew some sort of bullying crowd; you'd be told to leave the space you're in, or whatever you were talking about was immediately cut down as irrelevant because of your age.

Although I do think that a lot of AAMs that come on here are actually just antis, trolls or law enforcement trying to catch low hanging fruit, or paint this place as a grooming website to justify trying to get it shut down. However, even if only a handful of them are real, I don't want to be that guy that calls out the wrong person and starts hate towards an actual AAM who might actually just be here for some support.

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A real AAM actually cares about us and would never put is in danger

Not necessarily. It is the attraction that one of the As in AAM stands for. And attraction can manifest itself in many ways, including the ones more sadistic and less caring. Can a minor teleiophile hate pedophiles with passion? Probably. Sex is the core part of erotic love, but sex can be without love, too.

Besides, people are fallible. They may lack knowledge and can follow through with dangerous decisions even if they're aware of the risks involved. If it's their only hope. A minor looking for a relationship with an adult may find themself looking for it here. Because they don't know any better. Would you call their love not real, still? If so, how would you argue against something like "you'd never have touched me if you really loved me"?