(For AAMs) How to be a helpful vs unhelpful AAM
Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2025 11:09 am
This is for the AAM here, consider it a guide on how to help the MAP community and fellow AAM
Helpful-
1. Make videos on fstube of your testomonies. Publish videos talking about your expierence in an intergenerational relationship and how it was positive for you. Spread awareness and shows the positives of said relationship
2. Fight for youth tights. Fight for teenagers and children to be taken more seriously in general, this will open up a door to more sexual rights being expanded upon for youths
3.Advocate for your right to consent. Argue and debate with people who claim that minors cant consent. Ask them to define consent first and work from there, providing examples of how you have given or can give consent based on that definition and argue against their claims that you are too stupid to be with an adult
4.Organize youth rights and AAM protests, spread MAP articles and websites to the general public on online platforms, like tumblr/reddit/tiktok/youtube, etc. label yourself as a proud AAM and talk online about the positives of intergen relationships and how you genuinely want an adult partner and are not being “groomed”. Posting links to MAP spaces is safer to do as a minor than an adult MAP as antis will unfortunantly take you less seriously based on your age alone. Posting on places populated by minors and young adults like tiktok will reach for minor MAPs and AAMs and spread awareness of our cause in general. Create entire accounts just dedicated to positive AAM testimonies and research articles humanizing MAPs and intergen relationships
Unhelpful-
1.Posting CP. Will not only get MAPs in legal trouble but you as well. The sentence for producing and distributing PIM can be up to decades in prison and life on the sex offender regristry, which will put you on a permant hit list for antis and ruin your housing and employment options. Unfortunantly in this society, its not a fun little picture, its an atomic bomb.The rules for viewing PIM are cruel and unfair, so even unintentionally viewing PIM, no matter how acidental, can land an innocent MAP in prison for decades, and theyll have even less of a defense as an out MAP. Not to mention that the standards on whats considered “pornagraphic” are looser for minors than adults. Posting PIM on clearwrb sites ruins the few sfw and legal safe places us MAPs have to bond with other MAPs. Posting PIM on clearweb MAP spaces shows that you do not care about MAPs and want what little spaces we have to be shut down by the FBI. Its honestly quite cruel
2. Baiting MAPs. Posting “UwU im just a wittle baby minor please manipulate and groom me” and other versions of that sentence. First of all, “grooming” isnt real, all forms of “grooming” are either just love or manipulation, theres no secret special third thing when it comes to intergenerational relationships compared to all other relationships, and posting that you want to get “groomed” demonstrates that you think all intergenerational relationships are inherently manipulation and abusive, thinking so lowley of people you claim to be attracted to is a HUGE red flag.
It also has a huge chance of getting mentally handicapped people on trouble, as most MAPs who fall for these Chris Hanson style baits are autistic or neruodevlopmentally or socially disabled in some way, missing obvious cues that the person they are talking to wants them to get in legal trouble. Baiting MAPs is considered entrapment and is highly unethical and a very big red flag/suspicious thing to do to those you claim to love. Espcially knowing that you will get off scott free or even praised as a hero and the MAP will get demonized and possibly wind up in jail. That free time used baiting MAPs could be used for activism. Right now, with MAPs being tortured, murdered, and imprisoned, we need less romance and more activism. If you really so desperately(which you really dont) need a MAP partne, look for one in real life, where the chances of your MAP partner going to prison are ironically, much slimmer.
3. Do NOT call yourself a child. You are not a child, if you are old enough to be posting on the pediverse/MAP spaces you are a young adult, not a child, despsite your legal classification. At worse you should refer to yourself as a minor. When you are calling yourself a child you are advocating for the same type of infantilization that keeps you seperated from the adults you are attracted to you. Infantilization is NOT activism and will get you nowhere
Helpful-
1. Make videos on fstube of your testomonies. Publish videos talking about your expierence in an intergenerational relationship and how it was positive for you. Spread awareness and shows the positives of said relationship
2. Fight for youth tights. Fight for teenagers and children to be taken more seriously in general, this will open up a door to more sexual rights being expanded upon for youths
3.Advocate for your right to consent. Argue and debate with people who claim that minors cant consent. Ask them to define consent first and work from there, providing examples of how you have given or can give consent based on that definition and argue against their claims that you are too stupid to be with an adult
4.Organize youth rights and AAM protests, spread MAP articles and websites to the general public on online platforms, like tumblr/reddit/tiktok/youtube, etc. label yourself as a proud AAM and talk online about the positives of intergen relationships and how you genuinely want an adult partner and are not being “groomed”. Posting links to MAP spaces is safer to do as a minor than an adult MAP as antis will unfortunantly take you less seriously based on your age alone. Posting on places populated by minors and young adults like tiktok will reach for minor MAPs and AAMs and spread awareness of our cause in general. Create entire accounts just dedicated to positive AAM testimonies and research articles humanizing MAPs and intergen relationships
Unhelpful-
1.Posting CP. Will not only get MAPs in legal trouble but you as well. The sentence for producing and distributing PIM can be up to decades in prison and life on the sex offender regristry, which will put you on a permant hit list for antis and ruin your housing and employment options. Unfortunantly in this society, its not a fun little picture, its an atomic bomb.The rules for viewing PIM are cruel and unfair, so even unintentionally viewing PIM, no matter how acidental, can land an innocent MAP in prison for decades, and theyll have even less of a defense as an out MAP. Not to mention that the standards on whats considered “pornagraphic” are looser for minors than adults. Posting PIM on clearwrb sites ruins the few sfw and legal safe places us MAPs have to bond with other MAPs. Posting PIM on clearweb MAP spaces shows that you do not care about MAPs and want what little spaces we have to be shut down by the FBI. Its honestly quite cruel
2. Baiting MAPs. Posting “UwU im just a wittle baby minor please manipulate and groom me” and other versions of that sentence. First of all, “grooming” isnt real, all forms of “grooming” are either just love or manipulation, theres no secret special third thing when it comes to intergenerational relationships compared to all other relationships, and posting that you want to get “groomed” demonstrates that you think all intergenerational relationships are inherently manipulation and abusive, thinking so lowley of people you claim to be attracted to is a HUGE red flag.
It also has a huge chance of getting mentally handicapped people on trouble, as most MAPs who fall for these Chris Hanson style baits are autistic or neruodevlopmentally or socially disabled in some way, missing obvious cues that the person they are talking to wants them to get in legal trouble. Baiting MAPs is considered entrapment and is highly unethical and a very big red flag/suspicious thing to do to those you claim to love. Espcially knowing that you will get off scott free or even praised as a hero and the MAP will get demonized and possibly wind up in jail. That free time used baiting MAPs could be used for activism. Right now, with MAPs being tortured, murdered, and imprisoned, we need less romance and more activism. If you really so desperately(which you really dont) need a MAP partne, look for one in real life, where the chances of your MAP partner going to prison are ironically, much slimmer.
3. Do NOT call yourself a child. You are not a child, if you are old enough to be posting on the pediverse/MAP spaces you are a young adult, not a child, despsite your legal classification. At worse you should refer to yourself as a minor. When you are calling yourself a child you are advocating for the same type of infantilization that keeps you seperated from the adults you are attracted to you. Infantilization is NOT activism and will get you nowhere