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But one percenr into adults? I am mainly and most throroughly attracted to girls and boys under 10 but on rare occassions. As in, three or four times a year, I will find an adult attractive. But my orientation is pretty much exclusive and finding adults hot is very rare and my attraction to those adults pales in comparasion to the average kid? I dont want to call my self non exclusive if I only find like three adults hot. But I dont want to call myself exclusive because I DO find the very rare adult sexy. I wouldnt have sex with the adult, but I do appreciate their looks

I would call that me!
When it comes to little girls, I would say I find 1 out of 3 attractive, when it comes to adults it's more like 1 out of 1000. The adults I find myself attracted to are the ones that have kept their childhood spirits. They don't have to necessarily look like kids, but the few adults that haven't lost that spark, that still look at life with the same wonder, those shine just as beautiful in my eyes. By the time they reach adulthood, most people's spirit is beaten down by the challenges of life and reshaped by society, rare are the ones who manage to keep that spark alive.

Honestly, I don’t believe there are any true limits to what someone can desire.

While someone might never feel drawn to an infant or a hundred-year-old in their lifetime, attraction is fluid—anyone could crave anything under the right circumstances and mental state. Even an automobile could become an object of lust. Naturally, everyone has their core preferences—but there’s always room for exceptions.

(When I was a teenager, I once made a serious effort to feel sexually drawn to a car. But I suppose at that age, it was common to become genuinely aroused by nearly anything.)

I would also call that you (both).
It's fruitless to fuss over these labels. By their very nature, they can never describe people 100% accurately. Worrying over which category you fall under, or trying to live up to whichever category you choose all just causes needless anxiety and confusion. You are you, and that is the only label that will fit perfectly.