Hello
Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2025 8:37 pm
Hi, I'm new to this forum. So a little bit about myself. My AOA is girls 6+ but it seems stronger for girls aged 8-12. I am a 30 something straight male with he/him pronouns
Like so many I was abused as a child by a family member. I don't know if it contributed to being attracted to minors. For me it started when I was a preteen wanting to see and look at girls my age. As I got older the aged of what I wanted to see varied a little but overall didn't change much.
I spent a long part of my early adult life depressed and disgusted of what I was. i would never hurt a real child but was always afraid of what people would think of me if they found out.
Unfortunately because of how society looks at people like us, I can never be truly "out", but I have learned to accepted that part of myself. I probably will always be attracted to young girls and that's okay. It's a part of myself that I have to keep hidden but it doesn't define me.
Anyways, I hope to be able to have good discussions with all of you.
Like so many I was abused as a child by a family member. I don't know if it contributed to being attracted to minors. For me it started when I was a preteen wanting to see and look at girls my age. As I got older the aged of what I wanted to see varied a little but overall didn't change much.
I spent a long part of my early adult life depressed and disgusted of what I was. i would never hurt a real child but was always afraid of what people would think of me if they found out.
Unfortunately because of how society looks at people like us, I can never be truly "out", but I have learned to accepted that part of myself. I probably will always be attracted to young girls and that's okay. It's a part of myself that I have to keep hidden but it doesn't define me.
Anyways, I hope to be able to have good discussions with all of you.