I was thinking about this while commenting in another discussion. Has anyone been in a relationship and which you were both Maps and aware of it? If so, i am curious about a few aspects of it.
1. Was it a heterosexual partner, or was it a same sex partner that you had? ( if you don't mind, include your gender so that I can work out statistics involving later questions)
2. Did you and your partner share the same age of attraction? What about physical features? Meaning, were you attracted to the same ethnicities, features such as hair color etc
3. Did you and your partner role play, or do anything to help satisfy each other's urges?
4. How did you find out about each other being MAPs? What eventually brought it up?
A separate question, Were you ever in a relationship in which your partner knew of your attraction, even if they weren't a MAP themselves?
1. Did it ever make them feel selfconcious? Like you weren't as attracted to them?
2. Did they help satisfy your urges in any way, or at least look the other way when you did?
3. How did they find out? What was their initial reaction?
My theory is that it is more common under certain circumstances. I feel same sex couples are more likely to be aware that one or both of them are maps. Or, that couples who participate in age-play kinks are more likely to discuss it with each other. If you think of any more questions that should be added, or additional facts you wish to share, please add them!
My self, have never been in a "relationship" at the time we were both aware we were MAPs, but I have an ex-gf who has become aware for about a year now, and recently we discussed she may be a map as well. She once asked to see what I would use to satisfy those attractions and desires, and she was genuinely interested and fascinated by it, and I can tell it excited her as we shortly after ended up hooking up. Share any exciting stories you may have as well.