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Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2026 1:03 am
by DANAT4T
I have had dreams in the past that fits the description of the title. Extremely humiliating but am I wrong for having some excitement from this.
Re: Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2026 4:46 pm
by RoosterDance
There is no right or wrong for what you find arousing. This isn't even all that rare of a fantasy.
I think a better question is what do you find so exciting about it? Is it specifically the humiliation aspect of it? Or perhaps you subconsciously think your dad is pretty hot?
Re: Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2026 1:52 am
by Orry
Like RoosterDance says, I don't think it's wrong to be aroused by it. Neither is it wrong to be bothered by it. Not to go Dr. Freud on you, but you could consider it
repetition compulsion. Next time you have it, experiment a little. Instead of avoiding the feeling and waving it away, go all the way to one end or the other. Treat it like the most disgusting thing you ever saw and "act it out", make gross noises, wave your hands around like it's a horrible smell, scrub yourself like it's on your skin... see how you feel when you really lean into it. Alternatively, lean into the arousal. Totally indulge in it, moan, act out your dad's part (back off if you feel like you're retraumatizing yourself), don't "secretly" masturbate to it because that keeps you in shame and ambivalence. Really let loose and see if you can process it. Or, if it's not a big deal to you, ignore the dreams.
Edit: I read in your other post that you're wondering if you have OCD. What I described above kinda fits into
ERP so it could help but I would only recommend you try it under the guidance of a professional. Meds are indicated for OCD too, so you might look into that.
Re: Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Sun Apr 19, 2026 10:37 pm
by DANAT4T
Orry wrote: Sat Apr 11, 2026 1:52 am
Like RoosterDance says, I don't think it's wrong to be aroused by it. Neither is it wrong to be bothered by it. Not to go Dr. Freud on you, but you could consider it
repetition compulsion. Next time you have it, experiment a little. Instead of avoiding the feeling and waving it away, go all the way to one end or the other. Treat it like the most disgusting thing you ever saw and "act it out", make gross noises, wave your hands around like it's a horrible smell, scrub yourself like it's on your skin... see how you feel when you really lean into it. Alternatively, lean into the arousal. Totally indulge in it, moan, act out your dad's part (back off if you feel like you're retraumatizing yourself), don't "secretly" masturbate to it because that keeps you in shame and ambivalence. Really let loose and see if you can process it. Or, if it's not a big deal to you, ignore the dreams.
Edit: I read in your other post that you're wondering if you have OCD. What I described above kinda fits into
ERP so it could help but I would only recommend you try it under the guidance of a professional. Meds are indicated for OCD too, so you might look into that.
My father knows how to treat a young lady. I wonder if she will become pregnant.
Re: Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2026 9:57 pm
by oujololi<3
its my fault. i put shit in his drink. im gonna roofie your dad a million times
Re: Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2026 9:45 am
by JGHeaven
It isn't wrong, if you look at adult alternative lifestyles there's all kinds of things most people would consider weird.
People desperate to be cuckolds, swingers, people into bdsm and pain and humiliation, people into toilet sex, people into just about everything. These days it feels like people into plain marital sex are the weird minority.
So it isn't wrong to feel that way.
Re: Dream of being cuckolded by my father
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2026 9:30 am
by DANAT4T
oujololi<3 wrote: Fri Apr 24, 2026 9:57 pm
its my fault. i put shit in his drink. im gonna roofie your dad a million times
I've got a better idea. Do something similar to "CSA VICTIMS" instead. They could start seeing flashbacks of their abuse.
