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As a pedophile do you view children as your equals and do you connect/relate with them better than most adults?

I can't speak for other pedophiles but this is definitely the case for me specifically as someone who is on the autism spectrum and a big kid at heart i see children as my equals and while i am non-exclusive and like adults too my attraction towards children is a lot stronger than my attraction towards adults most of the time and i prefer to be around children whenever they are around.

To me it seems most adults don't care about children nor care to understand them and us as pedophiles understand them the most.

If a little girl is happy i am also happy if she is sad i am also sad if they have feelings to share i am always willing to listen.

Personally i can connect with and get along with other adults just fine but i prefer to be around kids like if i am sitting at a table with other people and they are all talking about boring adult stuff i tend to get really bored and my mind wanders and sometimes i think to myself i wish a little girl would come up to me and ask me to play with her right now.

Pedophiles obviously don't exist for no reason we obviously have a purpose on this earth and i think we are meant to be children's mentors and pedophiles are meant to bring up children.

Yes, in a way. I mean even between adults, depending on the setting, not everyone is treated as equals in every way.
For example, I have people who report to me in the workplace and I see them as equals as people but not in the company structure because I have to hold them accountable, guide them, support them. So not equals in terms of job roles and responsibilities but equals as people outside of work.

For children I see them as equals as people. I value them higher than me as people because they have longer to live and experience, they're definitely not less than me. They are 100% full humans with the full same rights and longer to live giving them more value. But in some settings they would be treated differently, I wouldn't expect them to take on a complicated work task or do the family accounts, because they haven't learned how to do them yet and because I wouldn't want to bore them. I'm sure most could if needed though, when kids are put in situations where there's encouragement to learn something then they will. Look at poorer countries, kids can learn things and be productive very early, it's just in the west where like to treat kids like dolls, our property to keep young and dependent for as long as possible so we can feel special about ourselves. I think the way the west does that to kids is a kind of abuse really, we hold them back and turn them into little dolls giving them no respect or voice.

i treat children as friends. I don't place myself above or below them. Most of my interactions with kids have been fleeting so I try my best to make them fun and memorable.

I definitely prefer being around kids. Navigating conversations with adults especially the opposite sex is like trying to solve a crossword puzzle. Most of my relationships with adults have been superficial as I find most adults boring. I don't have to talk about "pressing matters" when I'm around kids, I'm under no obligation to impress and a lot of the conversations are akin to a wooden boat floating down a stream exempting the occasional bumps.

mrlolicon93 wrote: Sat May 09, 2026 4:04 am As a pedophile do you view children as your equals and do you connect/relate with them better than most adults?

I can't speak for other pedophiles but this is definitely the case for me specifically as someone who is on the autism spectrum and a big kid at heart i see children as my equals and while i am non-exclusive and like adults too my attraction towards children is a lot stronger than my attraction towards adults most of the time and i prefer to be around children whenever they are around.

To me it seems most adults don't care about children nor care to understand them and us as pedophiles understand them the most.

If a little girl is happy i am also happy if she is sad i am also sad if they have feelings to share i am always willing to listen.

Personally i can connect with and get along with other adults just fine but i prefer to be around kids like if i am sitting at a table with other people and they are all talking about boring adult stuff i tend to get really bored and my mind wanders and sometimes i think to myself i wish a little girl would come up to me and ask me to play with her right now.

Pedophiles obviously don't exist for no reason we obviously have a purpose on this earth and i think we are meant to be children's mentors and pedophiles are meant to bring up children.

Yeah. I try to treat children as my equals. I have an easier time sympathizing with them. I feel bad if I lost to my ADHD with my adult friends but if I get distracted by something on my phone while with a young friend I really hate it. I like making people happy, especially little girls and boys. I try to find jobs where I can do that, or at least not interact with adults who suck

Children aren't equals in terms of knowledge. But whether they can know if they enjoy sex? Yes. We have an obligation to teach children and not coerce them, but that doesn't hiding sex and sexual pleasure from them.

PorcelainLark wrote: Sun May 10, 2026 12:02 am Children aren't equals in terms of knowledge. But whether they can know if they enjoy sex? Yes. We have an obligation to teach children and not coerce them, but that doesn't hiding sex and sexual pleasure from them.

Dunno! There are some children who are naturally intelligent in certain areas, on par of not exceeding those of adults.

Yes! In some cases even above.