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Turns out I'm into BDSM, bondage, and even S&M since coming out. I've NEVER been interested in it and was turned off by it for many years. Guess I found out something brand new about my sexuality!

Never too late to make new discoveries!
Personally though, BDSM is like the one kink that doesn't float my boat.

This is very interesting, because I've noticed that many other female MAPs have similar fantasies.

Personally my fantasies always involve my own person being dominated and humiliated by a rude, spoiled LG.

bnkywuv wrote: Sat May 23, 2026 6:51 am Turns out I'm into BDSM, bondage, and even S&M since coming out. I've NEVER been interested in it and was turned off by it for many years. Guess I found out something brand new about my sexuality!

I haven't come out to anyone in my life, but I have also noticed that I want to experiment with things I once thought were "off limits" because it would be "gay". Turns out that when added to masturbation, prostate stimulation is another experience (especially when the vagus nerve is also stimulated).

GL_in_Lyrics wrote: Sat May 23, 2026 9:34 pm This is very interesting, because I've noticed that many other female MAPs have similar fantasies.

Personally my fantasies always involve my own person being dominated and humiliated by a rude, spoiled LG.

Niiiice! I think mine was always there as I had fantasies of those younger than me going things do me even when I was only around 8 to 10, but its grown much more "wicked" since becoming an adult. Not just light stuff like pinching either, more what you typically see in the BDSM fetishes. Whips, cuffs, chains, humiliation, biting...

Crazy isn't it? Especially in light of how so many think WE are the dominant ones.

Condemned wrote: Sun May 24, 2026 9:51 am
I haven't come out to anyone in my life, but I have also noticed that I want to experiment with things I once thought were "off limits" because it would be "gay". Turns out that when added to masturbation, prostate stimulation is another experience (especially when the vagus nerve is also stimulated).

Might not be explicitly a gay thing. Males do have sensitive nerve endings in the prostate that add pleasure when stimulated, not necessary related to homosexuality. Female pegging is one such example, and how we are such a sociosexual species, in some areas male/male sex wouldn't even seen as "homosexual" at all, but a variant of human sexuality. Papau New Guinea as comes to mind with pedorasty among males and young boys.

RoosterDance wrote: Sat May 23, 2026 10:04 am Never too late to make new discoveries!
Personally though, BDSM is like the one kink that doesn't float my boat.

Not gonna lie, softcore is also quite nice too! This is kinda more so icing on the cake. Makes it better, but it's not the whole cake.