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This topic is inspired by another topic : https://forum.map-union.org/viewtopic.php?t=3690

He speaks on the power information, how it’s used and how it affects us at a young age. I strongly believe that women need to come to terms with reality. How many times have we heard stories of women getting cheated on? How many videos on social media have we seen of women bashing men because they’re all cheaters? WHEN will women realize that men aren’t wired to desire only one woman. If you keep trying to breathe under water and every time you try you can’t, I think that means it's not likely to happen.

Men and women are completely different. Women desire one man, men desire multiple women. We’re raising girls to believe that men should be faithful to them. This isn’t one of these vices that you can compare to alcohol or drugs. Yes we may want these things but do we need it? No. Sex is literally the foundation of existence. Yes moderating sex is important, but to dismiss it because our girlfriend or wife will get their feelings hurt is insane to me.

To bring my point home; I look at it like this : girls are growing up with a false sense of reality. We’re lying to them. This is up there with not informing our youth about the importance of money and taxes. We don’t know until reality smacks us in the face. Women (and some moronic men) will call us selfish narcissist. There has to come a time as a society where things will shift. If what men feel isn’t normal then time will tell. I’m not here to bash women because I love them, but what men have done for the literal planet earth is remarkable. We are so spoiled as a society that even men have forgotten what we’ve done for everyone. We’ve gone through many phases, and STILL we desire multiple women. Women desire the man who is desired by multiple women. I rest my case. We are damaging the minds of our kids. There is a way to be responsible with multiple partners so there isn’t much of a case for any woman to make.

why are we talking abt this. like jst find a woman is fine w/ you being w/ multiple women. god forbid SOME (keyword: SOME) women dont want men to be w/ others. god forbid a woman set a literal normal boundry. im saying this as a polyamorus person. stop generalizing, and stop getting mad at boundries. also there are some men who do only fall in love w/ 1 woman. like. lets think plz

I sort of agree with OP, but I don't know what the solution truly is.

I literally know a man who is basically only ever attracted to one woman at a time, who's what you I would consider demisexual, while I'm very polyamorous myself and I'm trans. It's not a universal general that's true.

The more pressing issue you're going to run into is that in most countries across the world in the present day both men and women work, but women often less so, and in jobs that pay less (due to current economic systems' and enduring cultural traditions' economic and social pressures, but you can even say it's 'natural' and it wouldn't change the point) while also taking care of children if they have any. Most people can't even survive alone on a single income without issues, two earner households are basically a necessity at this point. Women under capitalism are going to see cheating as a breach of monogamous trust for economic reasons as well as the social ones you've pointed to. Cheating as opposed to a pre-arranged polyamorous agreement, whatever its terms are, often involves going behind the official partner's back and becoming attached to their resources (i.e. their home, the emotional and sexual labor they provide) and giving resources to them (money, time) that could otherwise go to that official girlfriend or wife. At the times in history where men who weren't in the economic elite were allowed to have multiple wives, they lived in the same home much of the time, and still it often involved backbreaking labor on their part to support their families financially.