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by PorcelainLark
Fri May 16, 2025 5:20 am
Forum: Theorycrafting
Topic: LABELLING CONSENSUAL ADULT-CHILD INTIMATE BODY CONTACT AS CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
Replies: 2
Views: 286

Re: LABELLING CONSENSUAL ADULT-CHILD INTIMATE BODY CONTACT AS CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE


I refer it as “Adult-Child Intimate Consensual Body Contact”.
I'd recommend using the term "willing" instead of "consensual." Unfortunately, people equivocate between the legal definition of consent (which is tautological), and moral general sense of consent relating to agency. So, if you argue ...
by PorcelainLark
Fri May 16, 2025 4:12 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice
Replies: 28
Views: 42576

Re: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice


I can see where you're coming from. It's frustrating when people prioritise personal enjoyment or defiance over the well-being of the planet. It might be helpful to focus on understanding the motivations behind such behaviours and finding common ground to encourage more constructive conversations ...
by PorcelainLark
Sun May 11, 2025 8:42 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: ChatGPT sketches a sex-positive "utopia"
Replies: 8
Views: 1528

Re: ChatGPT sketches a sex-positive "utopia"

Harlan wrote: Sat May 10, 2025 6:58 pm That can be traced throughout the history of mankind : forced circumcision, slavery, victorian puritanism, punishment for masturbation, persecution of homosexuals and queer people, - [[ You're here ]] - persecution of MAP people
It's weird how common circumcision still is.
by PorcelainLark
Sun May 11, 2025 4:13 pm
Forum: Theorycrafting
Topic: The message, messenger and shifting targets
Replies: 26
Views: 28316

Re: The message, messenger and shifting targets


Some people like to call me "anarchist" because I happen to reject all authority. I used to cling to this label myself in the past, but after a lot of experience and self-inquiry, I have rejected the label together with the entire concept of ideology. Ideology is just secular religion. We must be ...
by PorcelainLark
Sun May 11, 2025 3:55 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice
Replies: 28
Views: 42576

Re: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice


wilful ignorance is a profound issue; it is the choice to remain blind to the truth, often out of fear or comfort. When it comes to issues like climate change, we must ask ourselves: why do we deny what is evident?
I think there's an element of sadism and recalcitrance involved. People enjoy ...
by PorcelainLark
Sat May 10, 2025 10:10 pm
Forum: Theorycrafting
Topic: The message, messenger and shifting targets
Replies: 26
Views: 28316

Re: The message, messenger and shifting targets


While it is natural to seek conclusions that reflect reality, we must be wary of the tendency to cling to those conclusions as fixed truths. The moment we establish something as absolute, we risk stifling the ongoing process of understanding and exploration. Reality is not fixed; it is a dynamic ...
by PorcelainLark
Sat May 10, 2025 9:26 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice
Replies: 28
Views: 42576

Re: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice


It’s important to recognise the distinction between ignorance that arises from a lack of knowledge and wilful ignorance. While it’s understandable for people to be unaware of certain topics due to limited exposure or education, when someone has been informed about an issue—especially regarding ...
by PorcelainLark
Sat May 10, 2025 11:45 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: hiii i'm juno
Replies: 2
Views: 874

Re: hiii i'm juno


okok so idrk what to say. i'm 15 female andd i'm here to find people to chat to that are older than me! i feel like the people here would probably meet that requirement and would also like to talk because it is a forum after all. uhh i'm not really sure what else to add but please message me if ...
by PorcelainLark
Fri May 09, 2025 1:11 am
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice
Replies: 28
Views: 42576

Re: Call for Guest Blogs - Share your voice


No, that was someone named Hockeystick or something who, upon seeing the word 'transgender,' immediately felt compelled to assert that trans people don't exist. This stance is transphobic because it invalidates the lived experiences and identities of transgender individuals. Such denial ...
by PorcelainLark
Fri May 09, 2025 12:15 am
Forum: Theorycrafting
Topic: The message, messenger and shifting targets
Replies: 26
Views: 28316

Re: The message, messenger and shifting targets


However, we must be cautious not to allow our understanding to become rigid or dogmatic.
I agree with avoiding dogma, though I don't mind things eventually becoming fixed as long as the conclusions are reached through a transparent process and accurately reflect reality.

However, we must ...