I'll say one last thing, and then leave it because I expect we'll have to agree to disagree on this. When I'm angry at someone, I don't really think specifically about what makes me angry about them. Anger clouds my perception of them almost completely. If the distinction between pedophiles and child abusers isn't already there, the message you give when you talk about the normalization of MAPs reads from an outsiders perspective as the normalization of child abusers.Fragment wrote: Mon Jul 15, 2024 1:21 pmChild abuse has been on people's minds for decades. The normalization of a sexual orientation has not been.WandersGlade wrote: Mon Jul 15, 2024 12:56 pm I don't know. I feel like pedophilia has already been on everyone's minds for decades.
Ragebaiting does not involve "we're coming to fuck your children" type messaging. Not even ironically.
I feel like provoking people has the opposite effect of the desired effect, and what's needed for acceptance is to calm people down rather than to agitate them. It's easier to hold people to account when they aren't being defensive in my experience.
I believe that in their heart of hearts, these people know that how they're treating MAPs is wrong. However, in my experience people are less likely to admit they're wrong if they are trying to save face.
In my view, if you want to have moral authority you have to hold yourself to higher standards than an average person. The day a person can say "MAPs need to be accepted" without coming across as self-serving or crazy, is the point at which a lot of things would change.