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by Harlan
Sat Aug 09, 2025 4:29 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Were you a AAM as a child?
Replies: 4
Views: 2391

Re: Were you a AAM as a child?

I was not AAM. When classmates brought erotic magazines with adults, it (and even adult porn) never aroused me, I was always attracted to peers or slightly younger until I outgrew my age of attraction.
by Harlan
Tue Jul 22, 2025 8:14 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Why do you tell yourself that kids can consent?
Replies: 52
Views: 23590

Re: Why do you tell yourself that kids can consent?


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How could a kid consent to sex when they don't even know what it is yet ? If they don't even know what to expect, how is it consent? If so many people tell they were traumatized because of being abused as a child, it's that it does indeed hurts the kids. A child is innocent and puts its trust ...
by Harlan
Tue Jul 01, 2025 3:09 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: What about the child rapists?
Replies: 7
Views: 1359

Re: What about the child rapists?



Masturbation is harmless and should NOT be prosecuted.


What if the kid says “no”? Or doesn’t say anything?

No means No. Children refuse and agree to things every day and this is not regulated by a special separate law. Even current age of consent laws do NOT prohibit minors from atten ding ...
by Harlan
Tue Jul 01, 2025 11:13 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: What about the child rapists?
Replies: 7
Views: 1359

Re: What about the child rapists?

Rape should be prosecuted, but not with 20 year sentences (unless it is mass murder). Age-gap penetrative sex (penile-anal/penile-vaginal) should be prohibited until the age of 12. Masturbation is harmless and should NOT be prosecuted. There should be NO sex ofender registers.
by Harlan
Sat Jun 21, 2025 8:41 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Universal Maturity
Replies: 7
Views: 1104

Re: Universal Maturity

I had a conversation with the AI ​​and thought it might be better to write about it here instead of starting a new topic.

During the conversation I drew historical parallels with how society in the past treated women, denying them civil rights, or how it considered homosexuality a disease and ...
by Harlan
Thu Jun 19, 2025 5:37 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: How I went from radical Anti to radical pro C
Replies: 5
Views: 1135

Re: How I went from radical Anti to radical pro C

Excellent.
I'd like to see this somewhere as a blog post or podcast.
by Harlan
Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:17 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Doing a petition to de-stigmatise MAPs on change.org apparently violates community guidelines
Replies: 12
Views: 1421

Re: Doing a petition to de-stigmatise MAPs on change.org apparently violates community guidelines



So far this is what I have drafted (not submitted yet.
Why are you appealing?
I believe the people who determined this petition violates the community guidelines have a lack of understanding and awareness about individuals who are attractions towards minors and have decided to be prejudice and ...
by Harlan
Sun Jun 15, 2025 7:28 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Universal Maturity
Replies: 7
Views: 1104

Re: Universal Maturity


I feel like the idea that experience is the focal point of cognitive development can just as easily be used to argue for an anti-contact position. An anti-c person can say a minor has insufficient experience to consent.


The capacity to consent is one of the basic physiological and mental ...
by Harlan
Wed Jun 11, 2025 9:20 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Different views on what consent is (poll)
Replies: 30
Views: 16369

Re: Different views on what consent is (poll)

When you try something for the first time you are not informed enough and have no experience, all this appears after the attempt. A person consents to try something or repeat it if the first experience was not critically negative. Consent is a constant check of sensations in the process of activity ...
by Harlan
Wed Jun 11, 2025 12:56 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Different views on what consent is (poll)
Replies: 30
Views: 16369

Re: Different views on what consent is (poll)


If an anti says they don't think a child can consent because they don't understand sex, does that mean that with the right sexual education they could consent, or do they mean there's a hard and fast line about maturation (i.e. no amount of education can make a 16 year old educated enough to ...