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by John_Doe
Sun Apr 05, 2026 4:05 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Antis are the biggest sheep I know.
Replies: 2
Views: 174

Re: Antis are the biggest sheep I know.

People are so willfully irrational it's hard not to feel self-righteous, at times. It means nothing to claim that children can't consent to sex. That people genuinely maintain that 15-year-olds aren't capable of consenting to sex is one of the most shocking things (it might not be the greatest ...
by John_Doe
Sat Apr 04, 2026 9:18 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Anyone else Dislike the term "MAP"
Replies: 6
Views: 205

Re: Anyone else Dislike the term "MAP"



Think about it, a 17 yo could be dating say a 24 year old and people still view it with the same stigma as someone with a 10 year old [...]


The stigma is equally unjustifiable in each case. Because there are assumptions that people make about age gap relationships. Probably the same ...
by John_Doe
Fri Apr 03, 2026 2:46 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Do people who fetishize children hold us back?
Replies: 4
Views: 211

Re: Do people who fetishize children hold us back?

I think there could be a meaningful distinction made between teleiophiles who are turned on by the idea of prepubescent children or experimentation, novelty and the appeal of forbidden love and people with a stable true attraction to them but even then, there's some arguable grey area between those ...
by John_Doe
Thu Mar 26, 2026 6:54 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Do you feel anxious about being a MAP?
Replies: 3
Views: 143

Re: Do you feel anxious about being a MAP?

-I am bothered by the stigma around older or middle-aged men being attracted to or romantically/sexually involved with younger women, not just teens but women in their 20s as well. I don't really want to search for the words right now (how it affects me at least some of the time or how unreasonable ...
by John_Doe
Tue Mar 24, 2026 6:44 pm
Forum: Off-Topic
Topic: Fast Spring Break
Replies: 2
Views: 182

Re: Fast Spring Break


U need something new ^^
Maybe find a book that calls out to u , or learn a good hobby like art or music or writing?
Or whatever u find is interesting. Then try coming back to the games or talking to people :)


Even though I couldn't get into the movies I finished the last Harry Potter book ...
by John_Doe
Tue Mar 24, 2026 6:35 pm
Forum: Off-Topic
Topic: Trivial question about puberty and the Tanner stages
Replies: 3
Views: 253

Re: Trivial question about puberty and the Tanner stages


The tanner stages are rough categories to describe processes of physiological changes related to endocrine factors/hormones, and the rate of change can be different between individuals or for different tissue types or areas of the body.

I know but I'm curious about what's standard or at what age ...
by John_Doe
Fri Mar 20, 2026 5:47 pm
Forum: Off-Topic
Topic: Trivial question about puberty and the Tanner stages
Replies: 3
Views: 253

Trivial question about puberty and the Tanner stages

Most of the sources that I've come across claim that menarche is considered delayed if it hasn't occurred by age 15 (and whatever equivalent milestone there is for boys, the rule seems to be that the average age for that milestone will be one year later than the female average), around 98% of girls ...
by John_Doe
Thu Mar 19, 2026 3:41 pm
Forum: Contact/Consent Discourse & Debate
Topic: In order to have safe contact we need police abolition
Replies: 8
Views: 502

Re: In order to have safe contact we need police abolition

I am very firmly opposed to abolishing the police and prison system. I can support reforming prison and the penal system in various ways, all decent people agree that the suffering prison causes is bad unconditionally, but I'm convinced that they are necessary for the time being at least (until we ...
by John_Doe
Thu Mar 19, 2026 3:11 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: The reason I believe we are hated so much
Replies: 61
Views: 7724

Re: The reason I believe we are hated so much


I think it's mostly cultural. Though I could admit aggression plays a role. Consider that public executions and watching animals fight to the death used to be normal parts of human entertainment. People have a taste for cruelty and violence, even if it's socially unacceptable, that's why they have ...