MAP Forum

I don't care for 'oppression olympics' but I think I can make certain inconclusive assumptions about general trends, based on my own anecdotal observation, that don't contradict anyone's lived experience. It doesn't ultimately matter (not even tactically, assuming that helping male MAPs doesn't ...

I also think that we are all, without exception, sinners...
I was going to say something similar. I wonder if we weren't born MAPs, whether we would really turn out to be better than the rest of society and recognize that MAPs were being mistreated? It seems similar to the fantasy that if you ...

I would not choose to not be attracted to pubescent preteens/teens or young women if I could but I would choose to be attracted to middle-aged and elderly women. It would be great if I could choose to be attracted to women who aren't my type physically in general (it would be a huge advantage for me ...

aeterna91,

It was probably your post that inspired this, I thank you for it.

For a long time I've really held to the idea that your peace of mind can't depend on understanding how other people justify their position. I'm not saying that there's no value in trying to understand the other man's ...

Learning to undeny,

Expecting people to be rational is irrational. We're animals at the end of the day.

I agree. People are generally not logical actors, if any of us are ultimately (I think that some people tend to have a better understanding of what best serves their strongest intuitions or ...

I think you are right.
When my daughters were young I wouldn't bath them or even carry them in public because I always felt like the world was judging. The result was more work for my wife, as if she wasn't having to do enough as a mom. But I've spoken to other dads over the years and it isn't ...

Not that it matters (there's nothing wrong with being attracted to babies), but I don't think most people are attracted to babies.

-Adults having sex and reproducing with people they’re attracted to because they want their babies to look a certain way (ie. Also be attractive)

I think people ...

I don't doubt that some of this might be circumstantially true (regardless of what motivates anti-minor attraction prejudice I have no doubt that all heterosexual teleiophile men are attracted to pubescent or post-pubescent minors who have the same fertility-indicating features that make women in ...

Unlike pedophillia, antis refuse to categorize hebephillia and ephebophillia as a mental illness, but claim that the affects of preteen-adult, teenage-adult sex is just as bad as prepubescent-adult sex, but they(mainly male antis) will also claim that attraction to preteens and teenagers is ...

When it comes to dating, the prevailing belief is that men prefer to date a bit younger, while women go for men a few years older. Global marriage stats back that up, showing that men, on average, are 4.2 years older than their wives in mixed-gender marriages. When asked about their preferences ...