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by aeterna91
Fri Mar 27, 2026 3:21 pm
Forum: Contact/Consent Discourse & Debate
Topic: Different views on what consent is (poll)
Replies: 47
Views: 22978

Re: Different views on what consent is (poll)


In cases of truly consensual and reasonable relationships between adults and teenagers I think if they are caught, based on "victim statement," presenting a positive light of the relationship, it should be a very light sentence like community service or something like that rather than jail, and ...
by aeterna91
Thu Mar 26, 2026 9:35 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Pedo-friendly countries
Replies: 14
Views: 1429

Re: Pedo-friendly countries

I think the answers make it clear that this is a very complex question. There’s no straightforward answer. It all depends on many factors. The answer to “What’s the best country to be a MAP?” depends heavily on all sorts of variables:
-For being a non-offending MAP or for actually engaging in sex ...
by aeterna91
Mon Mar 09, 2026 4:50 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Is “Grooming” Just The Regular Courtship Process?
Replies: 24
Views: 2534

Re: Is “Grooming” Just The Regular Courtship Process?

I agree with most of you here: most of the damage is caused by society's attitudes. As in almost all similar cases. It's not just that there are cases where the relationship is not inherently harmful and all the damage comes from social attitudes... it's that the entire social and legal system is ...
by aeterna91
Sun Feb 22, 2026 2:46 pm
Forum: Long-Term Projects
Topic: Using social media
Replies: 10
Views: 8822

Re: Using social media

This might be a bit twisted, but has anyone considered pretending to be an anti to share, amid insults, the best points, narratives and resources for MAPs out there? Someone who did that would probably avoid being banned.
You know, like...

“Ugh, look at these people! They say they don't want to ...
by aeterna91
Sun Feb 22, 2026 2:15 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Has society reached peak pedophile hatred?
Replies: 14
Views: 1057

Re: Has society reached peak pedophile hatred?

Normally, I think that the situation will continue to worsen for several decades before it starts to improve, that only when the most exaggerated hysteria has ruined millions and millions of lives and it becomes absolutely clear that persecuting age-gap relationships causes much more suffering than ...
by aeterna91
Mon Jan 26, 2026 12:09 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Stand with girls
Replies: 10
Views: 1120

Re: Stand with girls


My concern is that it might not even be enough for feminism to change course. I mean… first of all, I think that, given how things stand now, they are more inclined to regulate behavior between adults than to engage in discussions about sexual liberalization for minors.

But even if they were to ...
by aeterna91
Sat Jan 24, 2026 12:10 am
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Stand with girls
Replies: 10
Views: 1120

Re: Stand with girls

I haven't lost hope that the next wave of feminism will steer clear of the current course. The parallels between children and women in terms of “let's strip them of all their rights and freedoms for their own good” are very strong; it's impossible for everyone to ignore them. There have been many ...
by aeterna91
Fri Jan 23, 2026 11:55 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: I dont care anymore(vent)
Replies: 18
Views: 2157

Re: I dont care anymore(vent)


I do sympathise with the OP but the only question is how to respond to an unjust, insane world that just wants to hurt you.

My philosophy has always been that if I'm surrounded by people who hate me and want to see me fail then the best response is to be happy and succeed because that p*sses them ...
by aeterna91
Mon Jan 19, 2026 5:19 pm
Forum: News
Topic: Urgent action needed to address underage relationships in KwaZulu-Natal
Replies: 1
Views: 113

Re: Urgent action needed to address underage relationships in KwaZulu-Natal

I find it increasingly difficult to believe that "child welfare advocates" are genuinely concerned about the welfare of children. This woman seems to be fully aware that she is tearing teenagers from the arms of their lovers, against their will, and often returning them to homes where they are ...
by aeterna91
Mon Jan 19, 2026 5:05 pm
Forum: General MAP Discussion
Topic: Plz reccomend me movies about pedophiles to watch!
Replies: 14
Views: 4618

Re: Plz reccomend me movies about pedophiles to watch!

I found a very interesting paper. It's from the University of Texas, but it's about Spanish cinema. The Queer Child in the Nuevo Cine Español, by Jorge Perez, published in 2017:

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/354378074_Entre_lo_queer_y_lo_cuir_arte_politica_y_criticas_pedagogicas_en ...