do you know any MAPs irl?

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do you know any MAPs irl?

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been wishing lately that i had some MAP friends that i knew irl, do you guys have any? :D
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I met one online in the early days of the internet, like around 1998 before this modern hysteria. We would talk on the phone about little girls and our experiences. Eventually we decided to meet up and jerk together, but he turned out to be a complete retard.

We met at a local gas station where he decided to get into an argument with the cashier and then tried to fight him. The cops came and arrested him while I watched from my car.

Needless to say I never responded to him again.

I would love to have some IRL MAP friends, but these days trying to meet up is a major risk and not a good idea. Maybe I was lucky that he was an idiot because I never tried meeting anyone in this context again.

I think it would be possible but only in a very high-trust situation where no illegal content is involved or possessed, and no illegal activities are planned by participants so that any kind of trap/exposure could be prevented..

..but is it worth it?
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No but i wish i did it definitely would make me feel less lonely and depressed.

Had a mental breakdown yesterday and am currently in another depressed suicidal state again.

I would love to be with a female pedo who wants or has kids and likes to fap to stuff.
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I've met a lot of MAPs in person. There have been some scares, but no serious problems. Do it, carefully.
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Short of a reporter who has been sent with a hidden camera, there are zero risks to meeting IRL, other than idiocy. And it's been done enough times without incident.

One assumption is that you can let your guard down, as by agreeing to meet, you have put yourself among a group of "criminals", and "criminals" don't inform on one another, right?

This is a misplaced assumption. There is nothing criminal about meeting, so 100% of your mistakes are yet to be made.

This is the assumption agents want you to make, as their objective is to make you admit to or request something that violates the law. They can't nail you just for meeting. Ignoring this is literally 99% of cases in which it backfired, and yes, agents will attempt to build a trusting relationship and sometimes pretend to be naive and risk averse.
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Police are unlikely to spend resources on a 1 on 1 meeting with someone that isn't suspected of actually committing a crime.

When police have infiltrated things like NAMBLA meetings, as Jim says, the crimes were yet to be committed. The police officer tried to organize regular meetings and then eventually a trip to Mexico to sleep with boys. Just don't agree to illegal plans made by other MAPs.

One other small risk is anti vigilantes. But antis are far more likely to pretend to be minors looking for sex in order to lure people in stings, than pretending to be a MAP interested in legal, social interaction.
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mrlolicon93 wrote: Sat May 17, 2025 6:49 am No but i wish i did it definitely would make me feel less lonely and depressed.

Had a mental breakdown yesterday and am currently in another depressed suicidal state again.

I would love to be with a female pedo who wants or has kids and likes to fap to stuff.
oh no im sorry to hear that :( sending love ♡ i hope u find someone
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I've met quite a few maps in person and they've all been unique normal people. Some are very intelligent and highly accomplished, others younger fun seekers, some are hard working family types, others single living life, some are really struggling with isolation and their sexuality. I've met male and female maps.

It's a mix but that would be the same for non-maps to. I've never met a map I've regretted knowing though, I feel blessed to have met so many nice people. Unfortunately I don't know any super local maps, the nearest is around 4 hours drive away, I wish I did know more local maps. Maybe that's something I will try to do, find offline map friends close to me. There are a few ways to approach this, it's something I will think about.
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