What advice would you give to a minor MAP?

[G@yWad69]

My advice-
1. Stay away from anything illegal, I know its hard to resist but decades of prison isnt worth a sexy photo, besides, there are plenty of borderline photos on the clear web to goon to.

2.Dont trust any suspicious discord servers or telegram links, 90% its LEO trying to bait you. The laws against intergen romance and sexuality are so absurd that even just clicking a suspicous link, even without knowing the material you are viewing, can and will get you arrested, and most of it is planted by cops, if it seems to easy and too good to be true, it is, in fact your safer off just starting a relationship with a real minor than doing anything online, but I dont reccomend doing anything illegal

3.Once you turn 18, dont trust any “AAM”, 90% of the time its LEO trying to bait you

4.Dont come out in person, but if you are going to come out, parents are generally safer to come out to than siblings, espcially since many parents have or have had age gap relationships themselves

5. Dont be bullied be Anti C MAPs into conforming to their worldview, its ok to be Pro C, you dont deserve death or torture over having a socially frowned upon opinion. Renember, interracial relationships where considered abuse and socially frowned upon, and black people got nowhere agreeing with their opressors, they had to fight back against the dominate narrative. Their opressors said race mixing was abusive and evil, and now our opressors say intergen relationships are abusive and evil, you dont have to be Pro C, but dont feel pressured into being anti C just because its the dominant social narrative. Its good to be critical of dominant narratives

6. You are NOT mentally ill. You just have a marginalized sexual identity, our opressors try to paint us as mentally ill in the same way the tried to paint homosexuals as mentally ill, dont fall for it.

[Puerto Lobos]

You definitely touched on this but yeah the best advice I ever got was to learn how all sexuality has been treated in the not too distant past, and be brave enough to see the pendulum swinging back. From interracial to homosexual. Make allies with people who understand that our rights are on a razors edge. Some people have exercised their ability to see through the veil of neo-liberal white washing and time blindness and that is the base requirement for someone to be safe to share your identity with. If they think they are safe from the state then your truth isn't safe with them.

Also yeah your existence makes you a target so just internalize that acab as soon as you can.

[girllover]

Everything which G@yWad69 and Puerto Lobos said.
Plus, I'd like them to be aware of their physical body and age.
As you grow older people outside MAP communities will find it very difficult to accept your attraction.
You should try to build your support system while you're still young such that you don't feel isolated or take impulsive decisions.