Why I dont support femminism as an AFAB/Transman

[G@yWad69]

1.They think that men are inherently evil. They demonize men for the cruel and evil acts of being born with a penis, despite preaching that gender is a social construct and that everyone is equal. Mind you, have a peepee is an uncontrollable trait that doesn't affect your morals, personality, or values.

2.They are very Puritan and HATE sex. They think that men and male sexuality and male genitalia is inherently evil and damaging. That being penetrated by a penis is a fate worse than death, especially in the cases of girls under the magical special number of 18 consenting to men kver the magical special number of 18. They claim to care about victims of sexual crime yet treat the act of being a victim of a sexual crime as basically soul murder that ruins you forever that you can never recover from. They think that non vanilla sex or sex outside of marriage is inherently evil because it “fetishises” or “objectifies” women, even if the women consents or enjoys it. They think that sex involving a woman and a man is inherently evil and dangerous. They think sex in general is inherently evil and dangerous. They think that once sex involves a female, it is inherently rape until proven otherwise with “consent”, which is a made up concept based on constantly shifting social standards and arbitrary laws. And of course, the female will always be the victim. If two drunk people have sex, one a woman and one a man, for the sole reason of the consent not being legally valid, the woman is a victim, the man a rapist, even if the sex was in fact consensual. They see women as inherently inferior to men and therefore default victims.

Or if a teenage girl consents to sex with an older man, the teenage girl is a victim and the older man is a rapist, not because there was any actual violence, force, or coercion involved, but for the sole reason that it is not legally vid and they view teenage girls as inherently infeiror to older men. But they cant just outright claim that they view women/teen girls, as inferior to men, so they instead go with the claim that “all sex involving a female and male is inherently rape unless I personally think its ok, the females consent is only valid if I personally think its valid, her actual thoughts and feelings on her own sexual encounter dont matter because she is inferior and therefore so are her thoughts and opinions on her own body and life.

3.They infantilize teenage girls/young 20 year old females to fit the “victim” agenda for control. They claim “girl power” and that young woman should have the autonomy to do what they want with their life, “their body their choice” unless the young woman does something that the feminist disagrees with, like date older men or have sex with older men, get pregnant, be a trad wife or a stay at home mom, have kinky, rough, or fetishistic/paraphillic sex, espcially with men, suddenly she goes from being a girl boss with womanly power who is smart and capable who can make her own descions to a poor, stupid, innocent perma victim who isnt capable of anything and doesnt deserve bodily autonomy because they are inherently “inferior” to men and older femminists and have no power or anything of value to offer besides being a piece of meat to abuse and use.

4.They dont let females have fun with sex and idiolize/fetishizes womanhood. They claim that all men are crazy sex obssessed perverts and all woman are pure innocent angels. A common phrase I here is that “males are such pigs, theyd fuck little girls or a patch of dirt on a side walk” Thats fucking rich, because, IM A FUCKING PIG. Im a female, yes, but im also a sex obssessed perverted sexual deviant who likes all forms of kinky sex, has a laundry list of paraphillias, and likes older men more than twice my age(and boys less than half). I would fuck little girls even harder than any man if it was legal. If I had a dick I would fuck a patch of dirt on a side walk, hell I might do it anyways due to the joy of strap ons. Females can be deviant gross little perverts too, but according to femminists, only men are allowed to feel sexual pleasure and have fun with sex, and woman must be conservative sex hating puritians who hate fun and naughtiness and are always “victims” of an orgasm. Any time a female is a sexual deviant, femminists write it off as “grooming” or “abuse”. Whenever a male does the same thing, he is “evil” or an “abuser”.

Take ABDL for example. If a woman roleplays as a little girl for her “daddy”, she is clearly an abuse victim being groomed by men into a subservient and easily manipulated role, its just explotation to femminists. But if a man roleplays as a little boy for his “mommy”, he is a lazy pedo pig manipulating and exploting an innocent woman into an abuse dynamic where he grooms her into being his caretaker. Theres no possible explanation in a feminists mind that women roleplay as little girls because they are into kinky sex, no, it must be because they are victims. Its impossible for men to roleplay as little boys because they are into kinky sex, no, it must because they are manipulators.

Even female vs male pedophiles. A femminist would probably claim I am an innocent grooming victim with repressed sexual trauma and POCD who was exposed to sex at an early age because I was simply born with a pussy. That because I am young and female, I am too idiotic and pure to be a freaky little pervert with radical pro sex opinions. Despite the fact that I am pro pedo, pro c, pro para sex loving pervert who will fuck anything with and without a pulse for the sole reason that a love sex, I am still some how a “victim” solely because I am under 21 and born with a pussy. I want to sleep with and date young kids and only avoid doing so because of the law, I write sex stories about all types of illegal taboo crap, I want ro buy sex dolls, I am pro C and view pedophillia as an orientation, not an illness, I read lolicon and shotacon, I have all the “bad” views that society hates for pedos to have. Yet I am still somehow an innocent little victim who is being abused by the 50 year old self hating pedo man whos anti c, sees a therapists, avoids children, and does all that other ridiculous crap that antis want us to do

Male pedos on the other hand, even the radical anti c pedos who avoid children and commit suicide due to their shame. Are not victims, they are evil satanic demons from the pits of hell rising from the cracks on earth to reap the soles of innocent children, mainly female children.

I saw a video of a 19 year old woman having sex with a 3 year old girl. All the comments were like “that poor teenage girl had probably been molested by her dad and thought it was ok to fuck toddlers”. If that had been a 19 year old man having sex with a 3 year old boy, or even a worse a 3 year old girl, all the comments would be advocating for his torture and murder.

Or rough sex. If a woman likes BDSM and is a sadist towards men, she is a girl boss slay queen who serves pussy for beating and whipping consenting mascohist men.

If the opposite happens, and its a man who is a sadist towards consenting masochist woman, it is no longer kinky consenual sex, it is “inherently rape” despite the fact that it was all consenual, on both the male and females side, soley because the femminist didnt consent to it.

Or actual rape. There was a female celebratity who was convicted of drugging, raping, and stealing from innocent men, and all the femminists in the comments were like “girl boss you go queen.” Like this was somehow a good thing and those men werent innocent victims. Let that be a man who was drugging, raping, and stealing from innocent women.

5. They blame everything on the patriarchy. I saw a tiktok of a woman saying Man boy love of the ancient greeks was “tHe PatRiaRcHy”. She refused to explain how adult men loving femboy bussy and shota cock means they hate woman, she also refused to eleborate how men loving boys means they hate women, but men loving men doesnt mean they hate women, depsite both dynamics being male x male and having jack shit to do with women.

6.EVERYONE is an innocent little victim who can do no wrong, unless of course you are a straight white man or a male pedo(and once again, this ONLY applies to male pedos, as a female pedo, I completely agree that there is 100% an advantage to being born with a pussy and liking lolis vs being born with a dick and liking lolis). If you are a straight white man, a man in general, or a male pedo, you are basically satan reincarnate and have to PROVE that you are a human being deserving of basic humanity and respect to these women

7.They femminize/infantilize trans men. They dont see us as “real men” because we were born with pussys. Theyll say shit like “All men are evil rapist pigs who should be locked up, except for trans men, who are innocent little angels who do no wrong ever and are basically women.

[PorcelainLark]

Personally I'd prefer if they had more sympathy for cisgender men, rather than less sympathy towards women and transmen. It feels like society has lost it's capacity for empathy. Still, the idea that pedophilia derives from trauma is a myth that needs to be dispelled.

[Officerkrupke]

I browse TwoXChromosomes, a popular feminist subreddit. I agree that there are sex-negative tendencies, such as kink-shaming, anti-porn that I frequently see on there. While choking during sex is definitely dangerous, resorting to stigmatizing/shaming is never good. “Sexualization” is a term thrown around to really mean overemphasis on women having to be attractive.

I don’t know if you’ve heard of “enthusiastic consent” but it basically says sexual contact without really being into it is comparable to sexual assault.

I agree there’s a lot of policing of not just illegal but legal age gaps, where a 10 year age gap between a 19 year old woman and a 30 yo man is deemed suspect and exploitative.

The “man vs bear” trend which emphasizes the dangerousness of random men, is an absurd simplification and comes close to demonizing men.
Combined with the common thinking that pedophilia is a male thing leads to the unintended “pedestaling”/angelification of women as morally superior. Kink as being male-dominated, or least a way for men to get away with abuse is also a prevalent opinion.


ABDL is said to normalize pedophilia and unequal power gaps. It’s prudery.

I agree with a lot of what you say here bc I’ve seen it said on TikTok/Reddit.

I guess the trans men exclusion from men in general comes down to seeing you as socialized female, then transitioning, so you’re almost a sister in their eyes.

I think a lot of this type of sexuality policing and kink shaming also shows up in the younger generations like Gen Z. I’ve experienced it when I had a boy friend almost 20 years older when I was 29 and people acted like something was wrong even though he was so gentle and thoughtful.

[RoosterDance]

There's lots of reasons to not support feminism. I agree with all the above points.
I would also add that feminism has never been about true equality. A YouTube comment I read summed it up pretty well, so I'll just quote that.

First wave demanded the vote, but never cared to address conscription; in fact, a large number of white-feather distributors were feminists, not only were they too entitled to ever face the responsibilities men had to for the same rights, but they actively chased and shamed men who refused to do so too. Also, the vote was never granted to males by virtue of being born male, the vote was granted to anyone enlisted in the military or navy (Including women), the only reason most men had it is because, unlike women, they were legally required to enlist; in some countries like Mexico they still are, or they're denied basic rights like driving, voting or traveling.


Second wave demanded access to jobs and quotas, but of course, only in glamorous positions; to this day there's never been a single feminist campaign asking for more women in degrading and dangerous jobs like farming, mining, oil rigging, trash disposal or sewage cleaning (And many more, all of which are populated almost exclusively by men), it's all about CEO and other top positions; speaks tons of their hypocrisy, they want "equality", but only as long as it lands them in a beneficial position, otherwise the whole field can be 100% male and apparently there isn't an "issue"; and if a certain organization happens to not fulfill the quota on time then they get fined or even dissolved without any form of investigation, so in some places simply because women fail to show interest in something (Which has been demonstrated to happen due to sexual dimorphism) hundreds or even thousands of people, both men and women, can end up unemployed in a whim.


Third wave is basically trying to blame everything and anything from big problems to petty annoyances on men, the male gender or masculinity in general; from the actions of mere INDIVIDUALS (Every other day some disturbed psycho gets labelled as "proof" of male/straight/white toxicity or some other bullshit like that, which is pretty damn ironic coming from the "progressive" crowd that claims that things like gender or race are unimportant social constructs and that they despise the idea of profiling others based on their race, sexuality or gender) to things men have little to no control like their bodily functions/proportions or the shit actions of others (Often women).


Feminism was never about equality, it's always been about exploiting the damsel act and liberal shame to get rights above those of men without ever having to acknowledge even the most basic of the corresponding obligations.

What even has this third wave of feminism accomplished? What does it even claim to have accomplished?

[White sea Snow Elf]

In fact, I want to know more about what has caused feminism to develop into what it is today, and what is the reason for their hysterical hatred?

[Not Forever]

In fact, I want to know more about what has caused feminism to develop into what it is today, and what is the reason for their hysterical hatred?

I once read a persuasive critique of feminism that condemned its increasingly paranoid turn within academic circles, attributing this shift to gender studies and related fields. From there, intersectional feminism.

The critique also argued that early feminism had its own flaws, though that side was perhaps less amplified—leaving today’s radical feminism as, ironically, the least estremist. In my experience, radical feminism prioritizes tangible gender equality over abstract theoretical debates. I've never encountered radical feminists claiming that wars are exclusively male-caused or insisting that every issue must be traced back to patriarchy to be solved. From what I've seen, radical feminists focus squarely on securing women's voting rights - a clear position, without wanting to be paternalistic or moralistic.

I don't know how true it is, but this could justify why they are so fixated on media, talking about culture, etc... They come from an academic background and instead of handling psychology and other subjects with tweezers, they use them to interpret and problematize society.

[Liana Lial]

As a trans woman, this is really just ridiculous. Even the slightest look at an author like Julia Serano would dispell these concerns. This is really the only kind of discussion you can have if you want to completely ignore the issues faced by women, and in particular, only focus on the sex-negative branches of feminism which expressly are pushed against by sex workers, transfeminist women, etc. Any transfeminist will tell you that there is a portion of feminists who are extremely negative towards sex and, in large part, demonize 'male anatomy' as a battering ram against trans women. You're really throwing the baby out with the bathwater here, as if every damn part of every damn movement for decades hasn't explicitly hated us pedos.

Read Serano. Get back to me.

[Kylelomaz]

Feminism is the most stupidest thing to have come out of the 20th century men and women are deferent on many fundamental things.
And is part of the reason why pedophillia is hated and detested.
The hatred really only started come out when the feminist of the 60s and 70s gain momentum.
And now a days all men are basically pedophiles to them.