My child friends always leave me

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mrlolicon93
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My child friends always leave me

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Honestly being minor attracted sucks and is a living hell and it sucks being attracted to and being friends with children.

Why you ask?

Because we can never be truly be happy.

Our child friends grow up and we become no longer attracted to them and if you are friends with a child they move on and the relationship becomes distant when they grow up.

It is a never ending cycle of a living hell of loneliness and i hate my life.
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Re: My child friends always leave me

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To be fair, there are a lot of teleiophiles who would gradually get less attracted to the person they're married to as their partner gets older. However you don't need to be physically attracted to a person to love them. If you're deeply connected to a person, then bodily changes shouldn't matter.

The silver lining is that, hypothetically, if attraction is primarily sexual things are perfectly set up to move to the next person. In a world where AMSC was socially accepted, you could take the role of a teacher and have a steady flow of potential partners. In contrast, consider the fate of the heterosexual teleiophile - they get older and there are fewer opportunities to have sex with people they're attracted to, there's no social context for meeting new people they're attracted to on a regular basis.
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PorcelainLark wrote: Fri Jul 25, 2025 5:52 am To be fair, there are a lot of teleiophiles who would gradually get less attracted to the person they're married to as their partner gets older. However you don't need to be physically attracted to a person to love them. If you're deeply connected to a person, then bodily changes shouldn't matter.

The silver lining is that, hypothetically, if attraction is primarily sexual things are perfectly set up to move to the next person. In a world where AMSC was socially accepted, you could take the role of a teacher and have a steady flow of potential partners. In contrast, consider the fate of the heterosexual teleiophile - they get older and there are fewer opportunities to have sex with people they're attracted to, there's no social context for meeting new people they're attracted to on a regular basis.
You make a interesting point.
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