"I now see all men as predators"

[Jim Burton]

I see this claim very often in victim impact statements in news articles.

Clearly, this is 90% of the time, something girls are groomed to say by lawyers and abusive parents, in order to gain favorable treatment or a payout, but what if we pushed it a bit further:

"I now see all black men as predators"

What then for the discourse? Is the girl an irredeemable racist, or is she still the poor, misled victim of a dark skinned molester?

If it is only "compassionate" for therapists to groom her out of her hatred of black men, why isn't it "compassionate" to groom her out of her hatred of men? Or her hatred of pedophiles, the latter of whom might not have even been responsible for her victimization?

[Officerkrupke]

I see this claim very often in victim impact statements in news articles.

Clearly, this is 90% of the time, something girls are groomed to say by lawyers and abusive parents, in order to gain favorable treatment or a payout, but what if we pushed it a bit further:

"I now see all black men as predators"

What then for the discourse? Is the girl an irredeemable racist, or is she still the poor, misled victim of a dark skinned molester?

If it is only "compassionate" for therapists to groom her out of her hatred of black men, why isn't it "compassionate" to groom her out of her hatred of men? Or her hatred of pedophiles, the latter of whom might not have even been responsible for her victimization?

I see the problem as being the vast majority of identifying pedophiles (currently) are men. So pedophilia itself can be easily seen as enabling toxic/predatory men, especially by feminist groups.

If we had a more 50/50 representation the attack wouldn’t be as effective.

Edit:
Rind et al showed that girls disproportionately had negative sexual experiences with older partners compared to boys. I think this is where the concept of pedophilia as a male problem comes from.

[reaver]

Black men is a true subset of men. Sane people knows this.

[galileo2333]

Another common refrain is that the activity between the old and young person ruined the young person's relationship with another young person.

An example is how a woman saying (after being convinced by years of therapy) that she didn't get to marry (what the therapist convinced her should have been) the man of her dreams, who's her age, because as a teen a 45 year old at the time man and her had sexual interaction (that she calls "getting abused") and that caused her and her same age boyfriend to break up.