Feelings on partners growing up

[Unrequited_lesbian]

I am 17 and am a AAM and a MAP and well i have been thinking alot about how if I could have been in a relationship how It would have gone when I "outgrew" them. I mean If I were ever in a situation like that I would love them probably forever as well my attraction is like 8-40 so I mean i would always love my partner. but yeah I just wanna ask other maps and aam (especially ones with a stricter age zone) how would they feel when they grow up

[Starlit]

Hey Im an aam too, this is one of the things I really worry about being with adults is that they’ll “outgrow” me. But I know I would date someone as they age, but the idea it isn’t mutual is honestly something that scares me.

[RoosterDance]

This is one of those things that depend strongly on the individual in question. Everybody approaches this differently. Most wouldn't just drop you like a rock though. At worst, you can remain good friends.

Well there that, but I think it need to be made more aware that regardless if a relationship is intergenerational or not, very rarely does it last literally forever. That is definitely more of an exception than a rule.