I had a relationship with an older person, but I never considered myself an AAM and where I live it probably wouldn't even be considered AAM. But... now, I don't know how common it was, but during puberty I had sexual dreams about my father. I'm not a fan of Freud, but at the time I seem to remember reading around that it was still something "normal". Has anyone ever tried to fit this phenomenon (which I don't know how common it is) into a MAP narrative?
But I repeat, I never had an explicit interest in older people (nor in people my age or younger to be honest, I was fairly disinterested in general) - I simply happened to have a legal relationship in my country with an adult person.