Anyone else hate when people say "you don't know what it's like having kids" when parents act out?

[bnkywuv]

Today while at a restaurant with my dad, I saw loads of cute kids there. I was in the restroom and a little walks in. The mother asks if she needed to use the restroom. The girl said no. The woman (who I'm presuming is the mother) rudely scolded her. 'Then why did you come in here?!?" as if she was stupid. Kinda dehumanizing to me.

She's a kid dude. She's curios and also was in between you and the door when you were walking in so she had nowhere to go. Now you're acting as if she's dumb? FR?

Then I recall my friend telling that "you'll understand when you have kids" and "if you had kids you'd understand why parents do XYZ." whenever I tell her of my discomfort when parents get all over their kids for something. Many times at the zoo I'll hear parents yelling at their kids to keep up when they're like 3. They're 3 and cannot keep up like the adults yet it's as if we're expecting them to be adults, well minus the sexual freedom.

Does anyone else find this irritating as a MAP? I'm probably in the minority but still it does really irritate me when parents blame their kids or act like they're idiots for the tiniest of things, the smallest of inconvenience.

What are your experiences with this?

[Bookshelf]

There's a lot of people who clearly don't like kids having lots of kids. If only we had a group of people in society that are more likely to be able to bond with kids while lacking the necessary desires to reproduce themselves so they could put more attention towards kids whose parents aren't interested or don't like them.