Came out to my dad today and...

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bnkywuv
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Came out to my dad today and...

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He was POSITIVE about it! Obviously not advocating for illegal behavior, but still!

This is a huge step for me in overcoming my mental health issues. Now I feel free to talk to him about this and it finally feels like my life is turning around for the better. We have a pretty open relationship but now it feels complete. I'm glad that I can be open to at least one member of my family.
37, female. Writer, mediocre artist.
Pro-c, though has intrusive rape fantasies and nightmares involving minors.
AoA is usually 2 but can go younger, oldest AoA is around 12-14.
Can like adults if they appear young, but fades with time.
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Learning to undeny
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Glad to hear!
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Fathers are awesome. 'Normies' always praise motherhood but I regard fatherhood as superior. I am going to my fantasy fetish land where my father is becoming a dad again with a woman who is younger than me. 'Normies' call me degenerate but isn't that what the Germans called the Russians in 1945. :lol:
I support AAMs and MAPs. Personally I am a romantic GL but I support loving relationships between people from infants all the way up to the elderly.💘
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I am so happy for you, and I think this kind of bravery is relatively rare, as is this kind of acceptance. Having support makes all the difference. Having a good therapist can work wonders as well. B4U act can refer to a safe one.
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bnkywuv
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DANAT4T wrote: Wed Feb 11, 2026 2:14 pm Fathers are awesome. 'Normies' always praise motherhood but I regard fatherhood as superior. I am going to my fantasy fetish land where my father is becoming a dad again with a woman who is younger than me. 'Normies' call me degenerate but isn't that what the Germans called the Russians in 1945. :lol:
From my experience, the normies are like my dad. Supportive, but not condoning of illegal activities unless we moved where AoC was lower. Antis strike as having the more extreme emotional reaction not unlike personality disorders such as NPD.
37, female. Writer, mediocre artist.
Pro-c, though has intrusive rape fantasies and nightmares involving minors.
AoA is usually 2 but can go younger, oldest AoA is around 12-14.
Can like adults if they appear young, but fades with time.
Into zoo too!
bnkywuv
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Enbyfictionwriter wrote: Wed Feb 11, 2026 5:53 pm I am so happy for you, and I think this kind of bravery is relatively rare, as is this kind of acceptance. Having support makes all the difference. Having a good therapist can work wonders as well. B4U act can refer to a safe one.
enby
I never came out to my therapists about it due to fear of being persecuted, but I might refer to B4U Act because i have some nasty intrusive thoughts and nightmares of minors doing unspeakable things to be and other adults due to the fear of acting out or being blamed/set up as being offending.
37, female. Writer, mediocre artist.
Pro-c, though has intrusive rape fantasies and nightmares involving minors.
AoA is usually 2 but can go younger, oldest AoA is around 12-14.
Can like adults if they appear young, but fades with time.
Into zoo too!
bnkywuv
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Learning to undeny wrote: Wed Feb 11, 2026 5:46 am Glad to hear!
Thanks! Glad to say it!
37, female. Writer, mediocre artist.
Pro-c, though has intrusive rape fantasies and nightmares involving minors.
AoA is usually 2 but can go younger, oldest AoA is around 12-14.
Can like adults if they appear young, but fades with time.
Into zoo too!
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