Stop blaming female Maps

[eveeve]

I didn’t mention this but another way i do think men have it way harder than women is how society will almost ALWAYS blame a man for doing something with a child. For example i could go onto roblox right now and message children hypothetically and if the parent finds those messages, the parent will automatically assume a man was behind the keyboard. Especially when women are more than capable of being that way as well. I personally think that’s why females are able to get away with a lot more than men.

[Condemned]

Just a way it’s easier is the generic men will compliment younger boys for sleeping with an older woman while if it were the other way around it would be a completely different story.

Absolutely. My male friends are always commenting "Where were these teachers when I was in school" when the news tell of a female teacher having sex with a student. I've never heard my female friends say the same when it was a male teacher having sex with a student. None of my friends are a MAP, at least that I am aware of. They all share the "woodchippers for pedophiles" mentality, not separating pedophile from predatory/abuser.

[DANAT4T]

Do you feel people here are blaming female MAPs?

I do not feel that it is specific to here. I don't agree that they have it easier than us. There is a high number of 'young' female teachers that boy students have had sex with. I concede that their criminal punishments might be lighter but their professional career will be over. Anti-MAP extremists advocate for removing their reproductive organs. I mean doing this is stupid to males but they hate us so much they want to do it to females also. There is also pro-contact extremists that don't support females because they are not pro-contact enough. I would say that it is natural for them not to be obsessed over contact as much as us because of their inverted reproductive organs.

But don't you agree castration is more straightforward for males than the equivalent for women? I agree we should try to be inclusive of women, but at the same time it seems clear why men would be more invested in this issue than women.

Birth control is the female equivalent of chemical castration.

[AtosW]

Who is "blaming" female MAPs for anything, and for what?

What i wonder is why almost none are part of the MAP community.

[Not Forever]

What i wonder is why almost none are part of the MAP community.

Gender and age group may frequent different environments; perhaps for this reason the problem is simply that MAP communities express themselves more on forums and decentralized social networks, which may not be very popular with women. For example—and I could be wrong—Instagram has a 50% female user base. The female population on Reddit is 40%, while estimates for Mastodon drop to 30%.

[Scorchingwilde]

I do not feel that it is specific to here. I don't agree that they have it easier than us. There is a high number of 'young' female teachers that boy students have had sex with. I concede that their criminal punishments might be lighter but their professional career will be over. Anti-MAP extremists advocate for removing their reproductive organs. I mean doing this is stupid to males but they hate us so much they want to do it to females also. There is also pro-contact extremists that don't support females because they are not pro-contact enough. I would say that it is natural for them not to be obsessed over contact as much as us because of their inverted reproductive organs.

But don't you agree castration is more straightforward for males than the equivalent for women? I agree we should try to be inclusive of women, but at the same time it seems clear why men would be more invested in this issue than women.

Birth control is the female equivalent of chemical castration.

For loss of reproductive capacity this is true, but chemical castration also damages libido and mood in a way that hormonal birth control tends not to. Both are awful yes, but it's kind of like comparing the complete destruction of female genital mutilation to male circumcision. Then again, we're living in an anti-MAP dark age trying to bring back surgical mutilation of MAPs so everyone of every sex and gender is equally screwed in that case.

[DANAT4T]

Very well said, thank you.

I don't see a lot of maps being against female maps but some are. I've had maps say I have it easier than them and even tell me that me and maps like me are responsible for all the problems they experience. I've experienced that many times from maps, it does happen.

But I don't get mad because I know they're saying these things from a place of frustration and anger and they're just lashing out. It might look like we have it easy but we don't. I'm no less frustrated for being a woman. I can't be open about my sexuality or have a relationship or show affection. Honestly, if I had a relationship with a young girl people would freak out just as much as if I was a man. I know some other females who refuse to go to male majority forums because of that kind of response. I don't think it's as bad as it has been in the past though, I feel welcome at places like this, it has been years since I've had a male map flat out offload onto me like that.

Do you know any exclusive female boy lovers?

[Creature Bipedal]

Female Maps do not have it easier. Women's prisons are equally as violent as men… Female sex offenders are hypocritically attacked like with men.

There has never been a female MAP prisoner killed, but male prisoners are killed as MAPs every year: Mahir Abdulrahman, Ian Watkins, John Elford… Most female MAPs are not even imprisoned, MAPocide is andricide.

[DANAT4T]

Female Maps do not have it easier. Women's prisons are equally as violent as men… Female sex offenders are hypocritically attacked like with men.

There has never been a female MAP prisoner killed, but male prisoners are killed as MAPs every year: Mahir Abdulrahman, Ian Watkins, John Elford… Most female MAPs are not even imprisoned, MAPocide is andricide.

My point was for people to stop playing the blame game.
Anyway, I once get into the head of another member so much that they longer reply to me. I destroyed their pathetic existence.
Finally, thank you for the Ian Watkins reference. The music video for " A Town Called Hypocrisy" is gorgeous.