Confused about Rule 5

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derando
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Confused about Rule 5

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Isn't the whole point of a community to gather and find and support one another?

I respectfully want to ask in which way we are allowed to reach out to another , if at all. Because being locked here feels a bit like being stuck in a camp.

And I have another question!

I see "activism" threads. So basically you want to change the law? How? And who could be a leading figure for freedom of all people?

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ReArm!
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Re: Confused about Rule 5

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Exactly!!! That's what I'm trying to say every time, not claiming it is but it honestly feels like a kind of controlled opposition. An activist web where people can't organize???? It makes absolutely no sense!

I get that it is for the safety of it against being related to ilegal activity, but damn, a lot (if not most) of us actually want to change those laws and make it no longer ilegal. And a lot of us have demanded that this policy is changed a few times already.

And for those higher-ups who want change in society (as I know BlueRibbon and I'm pretty sure JimBurton are), let me ask you a question: What will bring greater change: an organized movement being created in person in multiple countries, even if the web itself is blocked, or just a lethargic forum on the fringes of the internet that moves on without doing anything outside it?
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PorcelainLark
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Re: Confused about Rule 5

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derando wrote: Tue Apr 07, 2026 1:21 pm I respectfully want to ask in which way we are allowed to reach out to another , if at all. Because being locked here feels a bit like being stuck in a camp.
It's reputation based. If you're posting consistently, and not trying to skirt the line about NSFW/illegal content, then once we've gotten to know you, you'll be fine.
ReArm! wrote: Thu Apr 09, 2026 6:11 pm Exactly!!! That's what I'm trying to say every time, not claiming it is but it honestly feels like a kind of controlled opposition. An activist web where people can't organize???? It makes absolutely no sense!
I get that it is for the safety of it against being related to ilegal activity
You've answered your own question. Sites like these get shut down over illegal activity, so it pays to be cautious.
derando
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Re: Confused about Rule 5

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PorcelainLark wrote: Fri Apr 10, 2026 11:53 pm
derando wrote: Tue Apr 07, 2026 1:21 pm I respectfully want to ask in which way we are allowed to reach out to another , if at all. Because being locked here feels a bit like being stuck in a camp.
It's reputation based. If you're posting consistently, and not trying to skirt the line about NSFW/illegal content, then once we've gotten to know you, you'll be fine.
ReArm! wrote: Thu Apr 09, 2026 6:11 pm Exactly!!! That's what I'm trying to say every time, not claiming it is but it honestly feels like a kind of controlled opposition. An activist web where people can't organize???? It makes absolutely no sense!
I get that it is for the safety of it against being related to ilegal activity
You've answered your own question. Sites like these get shut down over illegal activity, so it pays to be cautious.
Sad about the no NSFW but I guess there are other places for fictional NSFW.
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Jim Burton
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Users who are off their moderation period (roughly 20 posts, but might vary in individual cases) can request to place an offsite contact or social in their signature etc. We will grant this on the basis of not being a troll, or looking to engage in illicit activity, and will in some cases invite to a private rocketchat server where community administration happens between the less dramatic individuals in our community.

The lack of DMs outside user-moderator communication is to ensure we can always answer the question "can you account for all the communications on MAP Forum" in the affirmative, while respecting user privacy.
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