I have a crush on my teacher.

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dizzyboy
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I have a crush on my teacher.

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I think have a crush on my Algebra teacher, and I'm way too coward to tell anyone I know. I’m 14 years old (almost 15) and I think I’ve almost always been an AAM. I crave relationships with adults a lot, and I think the moment I saw and met my new math teacher at the start of this year, I fell in love with him. All the time I try to just shoo these feelings away, because it’s pretty much impossible he’d even consider being in a relationship with me; but I can’t seem to get rid of these feelings and it makes me sad.
He’s the sweetest man I’ve ever met. He’s very understanding and patient with me, even when I just can’t seem to get a problem and I ask a million dumb questions. He’s very kind, soft-spoken (which, I love, as I cannot STAND teachers that have awful voices), he’s generous both as a person and with our grades—and he’s extremely handsome, too. The first time I saw him I felt butterflies. And he makes my heart race.
This probably all sounds really corny, but I felt like I had to get it off my chest.
I don’t really know what to do. I don’t think theres anything I can do, I’m hopeless really. :|
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There is nothing wrong with what you're feeling it is very normal for kids your age to feel that way.
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Don’t let anyone ever tell you that what you feel is wrong. It’s perfectly okay for you to feel attraction to someone even at your age. It’s only when you are young that age difference matters a lot.

A 40 yr old loving a 50 year old, okay.
A 15 year old loving a 25 year year old, society loses its mind.

Be you, be true to yourself. If you don’t feel comfortable confessing, then at least make sure you let him know how much you appreciate everything he does for you and the other students. And if you believe he would potentially be interested, find the age of consent for your location, wait until you are both legal and not his student, keep in contact. Then when you are both legal and not his student, tell him how you feel. Obviously, be cognizant of whether he is in a relationship.

And I repeat..do not feel guilty or bad because of how you feel. There is nothing wrong with it.

This is the best legal advice I can provide.
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Don't worry, I'm sure he does so too. 8-)
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This is so cute.

It’s normal for students to crush on their teachers, and I’m glad you could vent your feelings here, over doing something embarrassing to tell the teacher.

I highly suggest not telling him though. Maybe after you graduate, but before then it’d be awkward, heart-breaking, and potentially dangerous for either of you.

Just enjoy the secret crush.
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It's absolutely normal and common. Like I told the other person in the similar topic, I'd strongly advise you not to tell anyone IRL about it, because only problems can come out of doing it.

About telling him, maybe not the best idea either, but you can try to flirt a bit and see what happens. Maybe you can at least experience some kind of tacit quasi-romantic relationship with him in a way that no risks are taken.
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Re: I have a crush on my teacher.

Post by thecrimsonarchives »

This post is so wholesome and beautiful. Your feelings are just and true, and absolutely normal. I mean, even for me, I used to think the feelings I had when I was a kid were false, but as I've gotten older I've come to realize that even at the age of 8 or 9 I knew what I was feeling and understood those feelings. There's a lot more of us that are like this, than you would think. I'm pretty sure that teacher feels the same way but unfortunately society forces us to imprison those natural urges and feelings.

So don't think how you feel is somehow "corny". You're just human and what you are feeling is very much real and beautiful.
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