Not Offending Is Easy. The Double Life, the Secrets, the Loneliness Are the Hardest

[ZVOTD]

Idk some of those teen girls be looking pretty as hell. Wouldn't exactly say that avoiding a relationship with them is "easy."

[terminally_unique]

Idk some of those teen girls be looking pretty as hell. Wouldn't exactly say that avoiding a relationship with them is "easy."

I also wouldn’t claim that not acting on my urges is “easy”. It’s a constant struggle for me that involves imperfect outlets.

Unfortunately, keeping my identity secret from most friends and family to avoid being ostracized drives me inward and makes it harder.

[pumpkinspicehater]

Idk some of those teen girls be looking pretty as hell. Wouldn't exactly say that avoiding a relationship with them is "easy."

I also wouldn’t claim that not acting on my urges is “easy”. It’s a constant struggle for me that involves imperfect outlets.

Unfortunately, keeping my identity secret from most friends and family to avoid being ostracized drives me inward and makes it harder.

I feel you on that. I live in mortal terror of friends and family finding out. I sometimes think everyone can tell somehow.

[terminally_unique]

Idk some of those teen girls be looking pretty as hell. Wouldn't exactly say that avoiding a relationship with them is "easy."

I also wouldn’t claim that not acting on my urges is “easy”. It’s a constant struggle for me that involves imperfect outlets.

Unfortunately, keeping my identity secret from most friends and family to avoid being ostracized drives me inward and makes it harder.

I feel you on that. I live in mortal terror of friends and family finding out. I sometimes think everyone can tell somehow.

On some level, I want to come out to them if only to find out who my “real” loved ones are.

[Riva]

Idk some of those teen girls be looking pretty as hell. Wouldn't exactly say that avoiding a relationship with them is "easy."

Avoiding a relationship is impossible, but avoiding sex is doable if she wants the same thing. The guy is the one who's usually initiates and it takes a negative amount of effort to not do that. Prob harder for BLs tho, cus your more likely to end up in a situation where u have to say no.