Question for AAMs: Why Are Adults Attractive to You?
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Re: Question for AAMs: Why Are Adults Attractive to You?
Someone else put this in a wonderful way, the whole authority complex. I also feel as if I relate more to and connect with people older than me rather than people my age. As for appearance, I don't find kids my age very attractive, in very rare cases I will. As for sexuality, I like the way more mature bodies look, I also really, really like chubby and hairy men for some odd reason, that of which isn't very common in my peers. I feel like even If I wasn't a boy who's chubby and hairy as well, that opinion would still very much stand. I yearn for an adult man to smother me with love. With all honesty, this probably sprouts from some underlying father complex, but the answer still stands. ;]
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Re: Question for AAMs: Why Are Adults Attractive to You?
Chubby and hairy boy who seeks chubby and hairy men? That sounds a lot like a 'bear' cub. Do you identify with that subculture at all?blackcat10 wrote: Tue Apr 01, 2025 4:59 am Someone else put this in a wonderful way, the whole authority complex. I also feel as if I relate more to and connect with people older than me rather than people my age. As for appearance, I don't find kids my age very attractive, in very rare cases I will. As for sexuality, I like the way more mature bodies look, I also really, really like chubby and hairy men for some odd reason, that of which isn't very common in my peers. I feel like even If I wasn't a boy who's chubby and hairy as well, that opinion would still very much stand. I yearn for an adult man to smother me with love. With all honesty, this probably sprouts from some underlying father complex, but the answer still stands. ;]
I find it interesting to see how much agreement there seems to be among the self-described AAMs who wrote in this thread. I was expecting more diversity. What surprises me most is that the most common stereotypes which age play between adults relies on are similar to what you describe as your main reasons for preferring adults. You all sound like you're very likely to enjoy age play and various forms of BDSM in adulthood.
Otherwise, we're pretty far apart in the MAA/AAM world since I'm a non-hairy man of average build who's exclusively into petite, slender and smooth-skinned girls.

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Re: Question for AAMs: Why Are Adults Attractive to You?
You're very well spoken for a 15yo, which is very rare these days. Has anyone ever said that you seem like an old soul?blackcat10 wrote: Tue Apr 01, 2025 4:59 am Someone else put this in a wonderful way, the whole authority complex. I also feel as if I relate more to and connect with people older than me rather than people my age. As for appearance, I don't find kids my age very attractive, in very rare cases I will. As for sexuality, I like the way more mature bodies look, I also really, really like chubby and hairy men for some odd reason, that of which isn't very common in my peers. I feel like even If I wasn't a boy who's chubby and hairy as well, that opinion would still very much stand. I yearn for an adult man to smother me with love. With all honesty, this probably sprouts from some underlying father complex, but the answer still stands. ;]
Also I love chubby/hairy boys and men. I'm almost 30, 265lbs, 5'7" and hairy.
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