Stop blaming female Maps
Re: Stop blaming female Maps
I didn’t mention this but another way i do think men have it way harder than women is how society will almost ALWAYS blame a man for doing something with a child. For example i could go onto roblox right now and message children hypothetically and if the parent finds those messages, the parent will automatically assume a man was behind the keyboard. Especially when women are more than capable of being that way as well. I personally think that’s why females are able to get away with a lot more than men.
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Re: Stop blaming female Maps
Absolutely. My male friends are always commenting "Where were these teachers when I was in school" when the news tell of a female teacher having sex with a student. I've never heard my female friends say the same when it was a male teacher having sex with a student. None of my friends are a MAP, at least that I am aware of. They all share the "woodchippers for pedophiles" mentality, not separating pedophile from predatory/abuser.eveeve wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 1:59 am Just a way it’s easier is the generic men will compliment younger boys for sleeping with an older woman while if it were the other way around it would be a completely different story.
Heterosexual male | 40s | Married with kids | CSA survivor | AoA all genders 0 - 8 (primarily 0 - 3)
Re: Stop blaming female Maps
Birth control is the female equivalent of chemical castration.PorcelainLark wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 1:58 amBut don't you agree castration is more straightforward for males than the equivalent for women? I agree we should try to be inclusive of women, but at the same time it seems clear why men would be more invested in this issue than women.DANAT4T wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 1:05 amI do not feel that it is specific to here. I don't agree that they have it easier than us. There is a high number of 'young' female teachers that boy students have had sex with. I concede that their criminal punishments might be lighter but their professional career will be over. Anti-MAP extremists advocate for removing their reproductive organs. I mean doing this is stupid to males but they hate us so much they want to do it to females also. There is also pro-contact extremists that don't support females because they are not pro-contact enough. I would say that it is natural for them not to be obsessed over contact as much as us because of their inverted reproductive organs.
I support AAMs and MAPs. Personally I am a romantic GL but I support loving relationships between people from infants all the way up to the elderly.
Re: Stop blaming female Maps
Who is "blaming" female MAPs for anything, and for what?
What i wonder is why almost none are part of the MAP community.
What i wonder is why almost none are part of the MAP community.
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Not Forever
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Re: Stop blaming female Maps
Gender and age group may frequent different environments; perhaps for this reason the problem is simply that MAP communities express themselves more on forums and decentralized social networks, which may not be very popular with women. For example—and I could be wrong—Instagram has a 50% female user base. The female population on Reddit is 40%, while estimates for Mastodon drop to 30%.AtosW wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 5:57 pmWhat i wonder is why almost none are part of the MAP community.
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Re: Stop blaming female Maps
For loss of reproductive capacity this is true, but chemical castration also damages libido and mood in a way that hormonal birth control tends not to. Both are awful yes, but it's kind of like comparing the complete destruction of female genital mutilation to male circumcision. Then again, we're living in an anti-MAP dark age trying to bring back surgical mutilation of MAPs so everyone of every sex and gender is equally screwed in that case.DANAT4T wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 11:46 amBirth control is the female equivalent of chemical castration.PorcelainLark wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 1:58 amBut don't you agree castration is more straightforward for males than the equivalent for women? I agree we should try to be inclusive of women, but at the same time it seems clear why men would be more invested in this issue than women.DANAT4T wrote: Tue Jan 06, 2026 1:05 am
I do not feel that it is specific to here. I don't agree that they have it easier than us. There is a high number of 'young' female teachers that boy students have had sex with. I concede that their criminal punishments might be lighter but their professional career will be over. Anti-MAP extremists advocate for removing their reproductive organs. I mean doing this is stupid to males but they hate us so much they want to do it to females also. There is also pro-contact extremists that don't support females because they are not pro-contact enough. I would say that it is natural for them not to be obsessed over contact as much as us because of their inverted reproductive organs.
